If I feel like a good wank then there are about a dozen ladies that appreciate it and positively encourage it - I have added them to my favourites so we can easily join up.
I prefer it in a private room as the number of whispers can get silly and, in a private room, we can both have sound on without silly interruptions.
There are almost as many female wankers as male ones and I am not offended. As has been said just don't watch if you don't like it - I'm sure Blue Peter would welcome a few extra viewers :wanker: