Hi all,
We are going to abfabs this sat nite 16/12 for the 1st time, we were wondering if any other couples from this site are also going and if they would be interested in meeting up for a drink before hand.
If you are interested please get in touch.
Cheers
D & A
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d_a_curious_cpl
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 50
Bi-curious Female, 44
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Amsterdam has them all over the red light area. You arm yourself with a load of 1 and 2 Euro coinsand flick through the 40 or so hardcore films until you find one to your taste, or so I have been told. 
When i first went their in 91, I recall thinking that the poor lady with the mop and dettol had one of the worse jobs going in the Netherlands.
Never seen any in London.
D
When i first went their in 91, I recall thinking that the poor lady with the mop and dettol had one of the worse jobs going in the Netherlands.
Never seen any in London.
D
As a newbie to this site and as a couple who have not yet swung, I find this name branding all rather amusing and confusing. I dont like generalisations and lableing people for convenience. I dont particulary find being called a vanilla offensive, but on the other hand I would rather me and my partner be judged by our merits/flaws than the fact that we havent fucked anyone else in the 5 years we have been together!
Anyway, would me and my Mrs be classed as Vanillas? We like the idea of swinging, yet do not know 100% if we will go through with it. We enjoy an active sex life and love sex toys, dressing up, porn, camming etc, but does the fact that we havent shagged anyone else while together make us vanilla/bland etc?
This isnt a moan, honest! I just find it all rather funny.
(d)
Anyway, would me and my Mrs be classed as Vanillas? We like the idea of swinging, yet do not know 100% if we will go through with it. We enjoy an active sex life and love sex toys, dressing up, porn, camming etc, but does the fact that we havent shagged anyone else while together make us vanilla/bland etc?
This isnt a moan, honest! I just find it all rather funny.
(d)
Hi to those who spoke to us on the night. We are newbies to all this and have to give a big thank you to Stuart and Tanina, also Bassman and his Mrs for making us feel so welcome.
This was our first year at Erotica and we are so glad we went, even more so that we plucked up the courage to hit the pub afterwards.
BTW, we are the guity party for taking Bassmans bag! An honest mistake guv! I am in the process of returning him his rightful goodies!
If anyone here wonders who we are I was the loud drunkern Southerner and my Mrs was the beautiful Aussie.
Hope to join you all again sometime!
This was our first year at Erotica and we are so glad we went, even more so that we plucked up the courage to hit the pub afterwards.
BTW, we are the guity party for taking Bassmans bag! An honest mistake guv! I am in the process of returning him his rightful goodies!
If anyone here wonders who we are I was the loud drunkern Southerner and my Mrs was the beautiful Aussie.
Hope to join you all again sometime!
