I've just found them, and like others like reading other peoples perspective even from ages ago. The chatrooms are so repeatitive, how many times have I been asked the same question and its just too easy to be misunderstood especially accidently whispering to someone as you've just checked out their profile and not clicked back to "all :shock: and why is I only do that when the profile screams "don't go there"!
I also think all new members should be made to read the really good advice that's on the stickies before they start replying to ads, writing ads or chatting! would save me hours of deleting the crap from my inbox!!
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