Hi,

I'm looking to have some fun without the commitment of a relationship, but I'd still like to get to know people and have a laugh too - friends with benefits I guess.

I’m not looking to go to clubs or parties, just looking to meet a few females and couples and see how it goes. I’m 100% straight and have no problem with a bi male in a couple as long as they don’t expect me to suddenly become curious after 30 years! I’ve had a couple of emails from bi men – thanks, but you’re barking up the wrong tree.

I can travel or accommodate, but I’m not going to invite you round to mine until I know you’re not nuts. I don’t expect anyone else to be any different, so a social meet first is a definite must. I’m happy to chat on etc, but not really interested in chat rooms with anyone else joining in.

Age, looks, race etc aren’t important – I like laid back, funny, happy people who make an effort to look good and take care of themselves. Obviously we’ve got to find each other attractive, but there’s more to it than looks (unless you hit EVERY branch on the way out of the ugly tree). I’ll send a face photo to anyone who’s verified that I’m interested in, and expect a clear recent face photo before I meet. I won’t be offended if you’re not interested in me, and please don’t be offended if I’m not interested. Don’t let that stop you contacting me though - I promise I’ll be nice, and discretion is guaranteed.

I’m not hideously ugly or overweight,I’m in fairly good shape -no six pack yet, but I’m working on it. I’m 6ft tall, blonde hair and blue eyes, everything is in proportion ;).

I'm not into anything too weird, and cuckolding or exhibitionism aren’t for me either. The 3 P’s are definitely out. I LOVE oral (both ways), and have been known to indulge in some light bdsm - spanking, hair pulling, blindfolds, handcuffs etc.

Last thing - condoms will be worn. The mind is the biggest sex organ and if safe sex isn't good enough you're doing something wrong. Either that or I've really been missing out...