I used to be part of a group a few years ago. Was well organised and the fellas could be trusted.
We were busy most weekends 😜
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dannybrut
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
0 miles · Greater Manchester
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Warming the Bed
," is too low a grade of intelligence even for the police to act upon. He needs to contact them to make a statement, not post it anonymously on a website."
Jesus christ...i posted the original thread to warn others that this happens and to be careful!!!
if i wanted to get people banned, i would named and shamed and reported to admin.
If i want to take legal action i will, i dont need people to tell me what i can or cant do.
they actually had a video camera running ready to film the meet, so everything is there, even if they try to delete it, its still recoverable from the hard drive, if i ever need to prove anything!!
I really cant believe that people have picked apart things i have said in the thread.........yes it is one side of the story, but if i was making anything up, to get a member in trouble i wouldve named them!!!!
im not sure if im going to take it further, i want to, but the only reason thats stopping me is the lady.
she had nothing to do with it, and the last thing i would want is to have her involved in legal proceedings labelled as a "swinger"
As i said before, its just a warning to others......im not looking for advice (believe me i dont need that)
i am very proud of myself how i handled the situation, i never became an aggressor, i tried to restrain and leave.
those that know me would tell you if i was the aggressor, it would be a totally different story!
thanks to everyone who messaged me asking if im ok, it was appreciated.
now mods if you would like to lock this thread i would appreciate it......
Jesus christ...i posted the original thread to warn others that this happens and to be careful!!!
if i wanted to get people banned, i would named and shamed and reported to admin.
If i want to take legal action i will, i dont need people to tell me what i can or cant do.
they actually had a video camera running ready to film the meet, so everything is there, even if they try to delete it, its still recoverable from the hard drive, if i ever need to prove anything!!
I really cant believe that people have picked apart things i have said in the thread.........yes it is one side of the story, but if i was making anything up, to get a member in trouble i wouldve named them!!!!
im not sure if im going to take it further, i want to, but the only reason thats stopping me is the lady.
she had nothing to do with it, and the last thing i would want is to have her involved in legal proceedings labelled as a "swinger"
As i said before, its just a warning to others......im not looking for advice (believe me i dont need that)
i am very proud of myself how i handled the situation, i never became an aggressor, i tried to restrain and leave.
those that know me would tell you if i was the aggressor, it would be a totally different story!
thanks to everyone who messaged me asking if im ok, it was appreciated.
now mods if you would like to lock this thread i would appreciate it......
Warming the Bed
I need to share my experience last night at a meet with a couple, to express the safety issues us single males probably dont take into account!!!
The meet was arranged with a couple from here and i went to their house. Some small talk took place then we sat down on the sofa .
to cut a long story short, i was told its oral with a condom, my chappy hates condoms, but ALWAYS wear one for sex, but have never been asked to for oral..
i just quipped "it may take a time for the old chap to get up" to be told, well go then! in a unfriendly voice (from the male)
With that i said ok, as i wasnt going to be spoken to like that, and at this point did feel a bit uneasy!!
At this point, im still half naked and the male squares up to me in a very threatening manner, and eventually throws a punch. i tell him im not going to fight (being half naked in someone elses house in this situation does make you feel a bit vulnerable!!)
Then again throws another punch, i try my best to restrain him, in the process he tries to gouge out my right eye, leaving me with deep scratch marks around my eye socket.
Bottles and glasses smashed, im still half naked, trying to head for the door.i eventually get out, again, outside he squares up!
I get into my car, he tries to smash my drivers side window, and i sped off, still half naked!!!
Guys, be very careful when on meets, you never know who you are meeting, what they are like, and believe me, if anything does happen, you are in a very vulnerable situation!!!!!
I will add that the lady, was not involved in the assault at all, she left the room!!!!
The meet was arranged with a couple from here and i went to their house. Some small talk took place then we sat down on the sofa .
to cut a long story short, i was told its oral with a condom, my chappy hates condoms, but ALWAYS wear one for sex, but have never been asked to for oral..
i just quipped "it may take a time for the old chap to get up" to be told, well go then! in a unfriendly voice (from the male)
With that i said ok, as i wasnt going to be spoken to like that, and at this point did feel a bit uneasy!!
At this point, im still half naked and the male squares up to me in a very threatening manner, and eventually throws a punch. i tell him im not going to fight (being half naked in someone elses house in this situation does make you feel a bit vulnerable!!)
Then again throws another punch, i try my best to restrain him, in the process he tries to gouge out my right eye, leaving me with deep scratch marks around my eye socket.
Bottles and glasses smashed, im still half naked, trying to head for the door.i eventually get out, again, outside he squares up!
I get into my car, he tries to smash my drivers side window, and i sped off, still half naked!!!
Guys, be very careful when on meets, you never know who you are meeting, what they are like, and believe me, if anything does happen, you are in a very vulnerable situation!!!!!
I will add that the lady, was not involved in the assault at all, she left the room!!!!
Warming the Bed
ooooh, can we name and shame couples too, (not being sarcastic btw)
i sat in all saturday night a couple of weeks ago, waiting for a text to say where and when. heard nothing.
i too have a child, im a single father, arranged a baby sitter and waited for the text,call....nothing.
Some couples treat single males like canon fodder.
i know how you feel, bloody annoying aint it :sad:
i wont put their name on here...wish i could!!!!!!!
i sat in all saturday night a couple of weeks ago, waiting for a text to say where and when. heard nothing.
i too have a child, im a single father, arranged a baby sitter and waited for the text,call....nothing.
Some couples treat single males like canon fodder.
i know how you feel, bloody annoying aint it :sad:
i wont put their name on here...wish i could!!!!!!!
