I am a little disappointed no ladies have come forward..yes I realise that most tempted ladies wouldnt immediately jump at going dogging with someone they didnt know/trust etc but my thoughts were to correspond via mail and phone initially until a friendship evolved etc then meet for a drink/chat with the option of changeing your mind.
I dont mind what area it is as long as its down south..ie london area-essex-kent-east anglia-herts..so if theres a lady toying with the idea and would like to discuss it dont be shy..lets chat! I'm a very friendly civilised guy and easy to talk to.. sincerely david
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david4
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 69
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hi all! I'm a genuine civilised friendly divorced guy located essex borders to suffolk seeking a genuine nice lady who might like to explore safe discreet dogging fun..maybe clubs also. I'm happy to cover expenses/transport etc hope for a regular friendship thingy so if theres a fun loving lady why not contact for a chat/phone number? david
hi-I am a very genuine discreet civilised divorced male 40's located in east anglia-essex areas seeking a genuine fun loving lady who would be interested in exploring discreet dogging fun-I'm experienced in the scene and offer friendship etc no presure safe fun-have car and will obviouslycover costs-look after you etc is there a lady curious about the scene? am willing to correspond initially-I am divorced not in a relationship-intelligent caring honest non-pushy good company etc hoping a lady will be interested in exploring this, sincerely david
Heather-I'm certainly not too proud to take a step back and admit I was a tad bit hastey earlier in my comments about you--yes it was unfair of me I now see that-although I defend the right to have one's own opinion and to voice it without fear that it might go against the grain etc its unfair to tear a strip off someone publicly when they're not around to defend themselves-I could have least done it via a private pm-I am sorry to cause you upset! not least I count myself amongst the many males here who appreciate a lady who's genuine and consistant in this community-my 'rant' earlier was really directed at the many females in the ad's that are indeed timewasters and just playing around with fantasy with no real intention of meeting anyone--there are enough of them! my simple rule of thumb to suss out the fakes is simple-I simply ask them to call my mobile number that I always send--quite a simple thing to do or text etc but guess what 99% wont! I used to think it was shyness on their part not wanting to call a strange male...so text instead! but no most wont..if there are any genuine lady advertisers reading this please stop the rot and do the above if a reply interests you
Well MARK my Heather jibe is really quite civil and more a wake-up call then anything-we are all open to criticism on public boards and forgive me if I missed something here but there are an awful lot of ' advice ' posts from the lady in question-and if someone sets themself up in that mode you must be prepared for criticism dont you think? as for the ' not answering mails ' jibe--like many genuine guys on here I'm both annoyed and tired of the umpteen timewasters who are just toying with fantasy on such sites-placeing ads etc yet have no intention of really meeting etc one guy on here quotes of having a 5% success rate or the same percentage of genuine advertisers etc I think you should check out such compliants of timewasters if possible--------the same applies to those who may have previously had contact but dont wish to continue-surely sending a mail stating no longer interested etc would be the decent thing to do? but to ignore umpteen mails and phone calls is down right rude overall I certainly dont mean to be nasty--rude or cause upset but sometimes things have to be said to clear the air-call it whingeing if you will but..I think its healthy etci
Thank you MARK for the interesting BBC report--its another case in point regarding the wide spread unwanted publicity of outdoor fun-its suddenly got media attention and that will cause puritons to crawl out the political woodwork using it to further their stance in the community-not to mention local bobbies-parish councillers etc its a soft target with wide spread support--in the past it was the likes of boy racers-drugs-gays cruising in public loo's -now outdoor orgies threatening our peaceful communities-its a populist cause to be seen to act against such things-I mean ask any church going village/town dweller to discribe picnis sites and they'll conjure up visions of summer days-families enjoying a picnic with rover the family dog running around with the children-bird watchs enjoying their hobby-teachers taking children on a nature trail etc mention women leaning out of cars legs spread and knickers around their ankles and half dozen strange men groping her with erect cocks sticking out their pants and you can imagine the shock/horror value of such a story sadly I think things are going to get rocky over the coming 12 months
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HARRYO thanks for your post-most interesting-was ' dogging ' that popular in the sixties? JAGS I've noticed your nice 'very sensible ' posts-you really do come across as very nice-but know nothing about you etc? Blue are you still angry with me?
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HARRYO thanks for your post-most interesting-was ' dogging ' that popular in the sixties? JAGS I've noticed your nice 'very sensible ' posts-you really do come across as very nice-but know nothing about you etc? Blue are you still angry with me?
Far be it from me to criticise critics! indeed open debate and humourious criticism is healthy guvnor... to add to this fiery stew let me 'bat back' a few humiourous jibes ie BLUE yes I am advertising for suitable sites etc as I have a lovely lady friend who wishes to sample the forbidden fruit under the safety of my protective wing-may I add that at least I'm out there in the field being active and dont spend my life daily in a cyber community-a vertual soap place! am I wrong to think that a little sad and lonely? as for the lovely HEATHER who appears to have set herself up as an online authority on all things naughty and a sexy agony aunt-I might take you seriously if you had the warmth and good will to answer e-mails that someone has taken the trouble to write you with the best of intentions--ignoring them says an awful lot about you young lady!.......All this may taste a little sour for which I'm sorry but for those who know me will know my intention is to provoke in a humourous way and not be nasty--please see it as I really mean it--after all much is said disguised as humour isnt it heather 
Well it is the british way to escape into humour rather then face the... of course one post suggested pm's which is a suggestion but.. trouble it it isnt so easy to visit another beauty spot if they all have barriers up at nite-some of the most popular mentioned on here I've visited recently to find them locked ie Wisley--Grafham Water-Lynford stag etc you read of Dogging everywhere now and the tabliods are bound to make this the next expose thing etc but I guess it'll all blow over eventually.... swinging clubs just arent the same as outside risky fun-which has that exciting seediness about it-although adult cinemas in London come a close second!
Well-as much as I like this site and hope it thrives etc sadly this little cyber community is helping to kill the sordid and seedy fun we know as Dogging-it appears most on here skip along with social blinkers without a care in the world..but in reality we promote 'outdoor' fun on sites like this--the news spreads and next thing we know its ever so popular and all the beauty spots around the country have queues of cars crusing after darkness--this has happened at 3 great fun sites nr thetford in norfolk which are always busy with couples/gays/tv's etc I have sat there in my car watching the constent flow of cars entering the site non stop until 5 in the morning-obviously the local authorites are aware of this new activity and are putting up barriers everywhere-directives are landing on police station desks urgeing them to patrol sites and the ones I mention above have suffered all of this plus had whole areas blocked off from the public perminantly with tons of earth dumped--concrete blocks etc sadly the days are numbered for dogging fun I fear--the next step by the police is physically stopping cars andtaking registration numbers/details etc its a shame that something which is very exciting and horny/naughty will die because of its popularity--I dont think theres an answer to save it do you? :cry:
Hi all! I'm a genuine discreet civilised divorced guy 40's located nr London seeking genuine friendship with lady to explore safe dogging fun and maybe clubs-cinemas etc will offer transport-cover costs and of course look after the lady--regular friendship hoped for...have been a fan of sites for years but would like to be 'the driver' now..any ladies interested? David 
