Looking for new friends and some help !

Hi I'm very new to this seen and learning fast. That, what used to work in the more , shall we say, main stream world .Dose not apply to the swinging seen. I have now changed my expectations and goals to just meeting and making new friends that hopefully some will have the same turn ons as me. I like to see women dressed sexually in revealing but classy clothing. I like to go clubbing and dance,drink and just see what happens. What I really need are some Ladies or couples to accompany and guide me to the best places.