Thanks for reading my Swinging Heaven profile why are they so hard to write!

I'm a professional gentleman with a kink. Don't we all have a Kink!. And yes I am 'SINGLE' unlike many on here.

First of all, this is a legitimate posting on here unlike many, I am looking for a lady for a DOM/sub relationship! I am a tall, good-looking and fit white male with no hair and a great smile. I work out a lot and stay in good shape.

I'm safe, a professional person who is well educated. I have a "real" job in the tech industry and typically I don't have too much trouble finding a date.

So why this posting on the SH website? Because I have become tired and bored of the plain vanilla dating scene a few years ago and what I am looking for is a little harder to come by, that’s why I have been on SH about 10+ years . What I really enjoy is a kinky submissive female who enjoys having her Dominant man take control and push boundaries together for mutual fun and enjoyments.

I joined SH not so much because of my fetishes and that of others here but because of the much bigger likelihood that here I will come across people who are open-minded, non-judgemental, have formed their own views on sex, relationships and all sorts of other topics and act according to their own beliefs, not whatever society thinks you should think or do.

My fetish life is very important to me but we all need to live in the vanilla world for work, family and uninitiated friends. I’m a Dominant whose primary concern is to take those who serve me to an intimate place where we both can grow and be pushed. I have a large amount of fetish interests from sensual play to impact play, role play, exhibitionism, traditional training and tasks. I have a great selection of interests, please see them below on my profile.

The best play is, in my opinion, when people bring a range of experiences and interests and are able to go to new places together and being able to communicate is key for this kinky life. Beyond the lifestyle, I appreciate discussion, intelligence, and spontaneity.

I want to find a submissive soul who knows how to express her opinion and who is secure, at times independent, but who desires to serve and submit to strong male who will have her best interests in mind. I am a dominant who respects and cares for my submissive, who pushes her, teaches her, and even learns from her. I want to take her places she has never gone, to allow her to face fears and grow as a person and submissive.

I want a woman who will open up her deepest desires and join with me in making them become reality. There is so much joy we can experience together. Most people would not even believe such intense erotic pleasure can really exist. I find beauty of the communications, the sheer empathy between the Dominant and submissive and the electrifying thrill of the power exchange is as much (if not more) fun, exhilarating, and emotionally charged thus giving and receiving the very best each can offer! And most importantly FUN!!! I also enjoy truly finding out what makes a submissive tick, get inside the mind and psyche and then press the right buttons and avoid the wrong ones!

"Everyone has something to teach, Everyone has something to learn"

If you are the kind of sub woman that understands that then perhaps we should talk soon. I'm looking to make meaningful connections, to get to know you inside and out. Everything just works better if it comes from the heart and soul.

If this sounds intriguing to you get in touch and let me know a little of what's on your mind. Replies with pics will get priority. If you send a thoughtful response I will send my pics in return. A short reply at first is fine, but please tell me a little about yourself, whatever you feel is relevant… and let us embark on the journey together to be pleasured and pleased.

I'm not a picture collector, nor do I wish to spend loads of time messaging via , or Txt . After all we're not looking for pen pals, its actually good to talk and communicate !!!

Loves: Good food, fine wine, jelly sweets, the great outdoors, submissive women ... not necessarily in that order ;)

Look forward to hearing from you.

Gartree

Sorry but I'm not keen on cyber, I play in real life. No offence intended, I enjoy friendships on here, most of you are amazing, wonderful people. I'm just not keen on exchanging endless ideas and fantasies with people that have no intention of doing something for real and meeting