its true.
Speaking as a single male, this sort of thing annoys me as its often so hard to get invited as a single male. More often its the single males people don't want.
Whenever there is an invite, I do my upmost to attend, even to the extent of being asked a few funny questions by our favourite friends in their "flashy cars" lol
If you are ever down in kent, perhaps off on the ferry's or tunnel, give me a pm, i'll cum out. Please don't let a few put you off, us single guys need you. :cry:
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dogger30
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
0 miles · Ashford
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Mike
I share your problem, I keep going to meets and finding ether everybody gone, not turned up or all gay (not a problem, just not my bag)
I would love to meet up with some people.
I have a large car and am happy to travel even longer distances given time.
Based on m20 happy to travel to dover etc or m25
Andy
m32 5ft 9 str8
I share your problem, I keep going to meets and finding ether everybody gone, not turned up or all gay (not a problem, just not my bag)
I would love to meet up with some people.
I have a large car and am happy to travel even longer distances given time.
Based on m20 happy to travel to dover etc or m25
Andy
m32 5ft 9 str8
Need I say more
Yes, go dogging but please read all the warnings.
Never go walking, take the car, any sign of tossers ( I mean stupid idiots) then you can get away quickly.
Dont say where you are going unless its a PM to those you want to come or just go to a quiet venue and see if people are around.
If you visit kent and feel like dogging PM me, its something i would not wanna miss
Yes, go dogging but please read all the warnings.
Never go walking, take the car, any sign of tossers ( I mean stupid idiots) then you can get away quickly.
Dont say where you are going unless its a PM to those you want to come or just go to a quiet venue and see if people are around.
If you visit kent and feel like dogging PM me, its something i would not wanna miss
Are any of you out and about during the day on Sunday.
Would love to be iniated into the Dorset scene as previously I have heard great things about the area.
Im male, st8, up for fun and games and willing to travel.
Happy to spend part of sunday driving for a couple of hours to see the sights.
Discrete, and happy to go with the flow.
Mail me, don't post info on the site
Would love to be iniated into the Dorset scene as previously I have heard great things about the area.
Im male, st8, up for fun and games and willing to travel.
Happy to spend part of sunday driving for a couple of hours to see the sights.
Discrete, and happy to go with the flow.
Mail me, don't post info on the site
I am near hythe, folkestone and dover and have been to a few places.
Happy to chat offline about places, maybe we can all meet up. Mike72 may want some company whilst waiting (mike im st8 so don't panic).
I am intersted in anything and everything. Love to watch, love to join in.
I prefer to plan meets well in advance to ensure success but will go to ad hoc ones as well
Can quote a few happy people with the following.
"dogger is a gent, stayed in his car as instructed, think he really enjoyed the show"
"Dogger stayed inside his car till jane wanted more than I could provide, he followed the signals, did as he was told and retreated. The lucky sod wrote and thanked us when we got home. We will invite him again. Shave the bloddy chin though"
Its nice to be appreciated but I ain't ganna shave
Happy to chat offline about places, maybe we can all meet up. Mike72 may want some company whilst waiting (mike im st8 so don't panic).
I am intersted in anything and everything. Love to watch, love to join in.
I prefer to plan meets well in advance to ensure success but will go to ad hoc ones as well
Can quote a few happy people with the following.
"dogger is a gent, stayed in his car as instructed, think he really enjoyed the show"
"Dogger stayed inside his car till jane wanted more than I could provide, he followed the signals, did as he was told and retreated. The lucky sod wrote and thanked us when we got home. We will invite him again. Shave the bloddy chin though"
Its nice to be appreciated but I ain't ganna shave
Thanks Christmass for the info on Macs layby
I know tend to avoid any so called advertised sites, in fact it may be useful for one of the moderators to remove the link on the site.
With all the press and the boys in blue paying us so much attention rather than robbers, rapists and other top crimes, its rather a shame we are giving them a helping hand to oppress what is an noble and ancient art.
8)
I know tend to avoid any so called advertised sites, in fact it may be useful for one of the moderators to remove the link on the site.
With all the press and the boys in blue paying us so much attention rather than robbers, rapists and other top crimes, its rather a shame we are giving them a helping hand to oppress what is an noble and ancient art.
8)
Teasers I found was more for the gentlemen, as it invloves young bar girls getting up and strutting their stuff on the bars from time to time.
Unless your g/f is happy to look at just girls then fair enough.
Strangly enough, for a good bit of swinging action with visitors to amsterdam (for some reason especially americans) you may want to visit the Grasshopper. You can see this from Teasers front door, look straigh accross the canal.
Basement is a smoking area for purchases (no alcohol).
Go in side door to the main drinking bit, smoke if you want to, there are always people to meet and fun to be had.
I know we did and we were only planning to have a beer, but achived success on night one, then returned every night for 5 nights and only failed once, and that was because the people involved were not really our type and were mainly into the amsterdam smoking thing.
At the end of the day, if all else fails, you at least get a nice drink at reasonably fair prices for amsterdam.
Unless your g/f is happy to look at just girls then fair enough.
Strangly enough, for a good bit of swinging action with visitors to amsterdam (for some reason especially americans) you may want to visit the Grasshopper. You can see this from Teasers front door, look straigh accross the canal.
Basement is a smoking area for purchases (no alcohol).
Go in side door to the main drinking bit, smoke if you want to, there are always people to meet and fun to be had.
I know we did and we were only planning to have a beer, but achived success on night one, then returned every night for 5 nights and only failed once, and that was because the people involved were not really our type and were mainly into the amsterdam smoking thing.
At the end of the day, if all else fails, you at least get a nice drink at reasonably fair prices for amsterdam.
A quick poll for us doggers
As a single male dogger, I really get annoyed by some single guys driving round good meeting points spoiling the fun.
I have witnessed guys shining torches into cars, full beam headlights, following people after meets.
Wise up guys, the more you do it, the less people will be willing to come out.
As a single male dogger, I really get annoyed by some single guys driving round good meeting points spoiling the fun.
I have witnessed guys shining torches into cars, full beam headlights, following people after meets.
Wise up guys, the more you do it, the less people will be willing to come out.
Rob and Marie
Sorry to hear of the trouble some stupid people gave you.
It really amazes me why they do it. I mean, the point of most of us single doggers is to be treated an amazing view of one of the beautiful acts god created.
myself and a couple of the Kent single doggers who I have met try to be respectful and always remain in our cars unless specifically told to get out by a pre arranged signal.
We always now use private mail to arrange meets and never use what are now very public dogging points (in fact dover was regarded as a very well known spot and had people just turning up for a laugh which is unacceptable).
In future, if you do plan to go out again, read the new guidelines about arranging a dogging point. Only inform people by mail and then set them ground rules.
The most recent (new, not a regular contact) session involved lots of emails and even a couple of alternative meets and phone numbers. These help prove genuine people from the jokers and help make a great night.
In addition, we always arrange for the watchers to turn up early so that the people performing (wrong word but it will do) can ascertain if they feel it is safe.
Its a pity Bournemouth is a long distance from me. I would be willing to show you how a gentleman dogger behaves.
Good luck in the future
:D
Sorry to hear of the trouble some stupid people gave you.
It really amazes me why they do it. I mean, the point of most of us single doggers is to be treated an amazing view of one of the beautiful acts god created.
myself and a couple of the Kent single doggers who I have met try to be respectful and always remain in our cars unless specifically told to get out by a pre arranged signal.
We always now use private mail to arrange meets and never use what are now very public dogging points (in fact dover was regarded as a very well known spot and had people just turning up for a laugh which is unacceptable).
In future, if you do plan to go out again, read the new guidelines about arranging a dogging point. Only inform people by mail and then set them ground rules.
The most recent (new, not a regular contact) session involved lots of emails and even a couple of alternative meets and phone numbers. These help prove genuine people from the jokers and help make a great night.
In addition, we always arrange for the watchers to turn up early so that the people performing (wrong word but it will do) can ascertain if they feel it is safe.
Its a pity Bournemouth is a long distance from me. I would be willing to show you how a gentleman dogger behaves.
Good luck in the future
:D
Quote by mike72
Hi,
I,ve just moved to Dover and the dogging scene down here seems a bit poor. I haven't had any luck finding any action anywhere. Any advice on the places to go in Kent for a decent show?
Any help much appreciated.
Mike
Mike
There is fun to be had, but the problem as tomtilson has found is that there are too many who spoil it by either expecting too much or just being annoying.
My own problem is that the good kent sites have been busy with the boys in blue and it is them who have also spoiled the fun.
The only advice I can give is keep trying, don't be pushy, be honest as possible and if at first you don't succeed try try again.
It took a while for me to get going but a have a couple of contacts that I made and we keep ourselves amused.
We never post locations, always private mails as other people come along and spoil it, and we never reveal what went on, unless all agree.
Simple rules but worth remembering.
As for Tom, PM me when you are out next, I always keep my distance unless called, happy to travel
:( Those boys in blue were actively policing the wye downs friday night and got people to move on.
They said they know whats going on, but as they did not interupt any action they could do nothing.
Any one in kent who use this spot should move to another, happy to pvt with anyone. 8)
Mind you it was cold friday so no wonder nothing was happening
Hi everyone, hope you all had a good one.
My best meet of 2003 (sorry shag reminds me so much of austin powers) had to be with Rob and Helen (where are you now)
They PVT'd me in the chat room as a guest, was ganna complain until they said they were a couple.
After a quick chat we went to personal mails and arranged a car park meet. Rob just wanted to watch, and had asked me to treat Helen as a lady.
Well, I always do, but was surprised at the response, needless to say, a 15 min meet turned out to be 30 mins in the car park followed by 4 hours at their place (which was hard driving to, if you get my drift), where we managed to get Rob to join in too. My first time performing with another man, and must admit, absolutely hilarious.
Was asked to stay but had a 4am start next day, and had about enough time to brush my teeth before going to work. :doh:
Still, 2004 will hopefully be better, I have already made some new friends and I hope to get to know them better, especially one who looks excellent.
Best wishes to you all.
My best meet of 2003 (sorry shag reminds me so much of austin powers) had to be with Rob and Helen (where are you now)
They PVT'd me in the chat room as a guest, was ganna complain until they said they were a couple.
After a quick chat we went to personal mails and arranged a car park meet. Rob just wanted to watch, and had asked me to treat Helen as a lady.
Well, I always do, but was surprised at the response, needless to say, a 15 min meet turned out to be 30 mins in the car park followed by 4 hours at their place (which was hard driving to, if you get my drift), where we managed to get Rob to join in too. My first time performing with another man, and must admit, absolutely hilarious.
Was asked to stay but had a 4am start next day, and had about enough time to brush my teeth before going to work. :doh:
Still, 2004 will hopefully be better, I have already made some new friends and I hope to get to know them better, especially one who looks excellent.
Best wishes to you all.
I have no problems with the police reading my mails.
I would not post meet info on the site but would do that by phone.
Hopefully the police do use their computers for more than just typing.
I fully support police monitoring as long as they respect privacy if within the bounds of the lore (and yes i mean lore)
I would not post meet info on the site but would do that by phone.
Hopefully the police do use their computers for more than just typing.
I fully support police monitoring as long as they respect privacy if within the bounds of the lore (and yes i mean lore)
as a relative newbie myself, I found this whole subject very interesting.
I have posted a couple of ads myself and found either no replies or a couple of bi-curious.
I have been lucky with a couple of meets, I joined a few months ago and have alot to thank mark and his site for.
But what I find more worthwhile is that I have also made friends too.
There are too many people, to put it bluntly, "out for a shag". Although I love this too, I love to find out about people and chat for a while first, understand what they are there for, other interests.
It also gives you something to talk about afterwards whilst having a fag. **joke**
At least you are trying and are not doing the old one liners routine.
good luck to you
I have posted a couple of ads myself and found either no replies or a couple of bi-curious.
I have been lucky with a couple of meets, I joined a few months ago and have alot to thank mark and his site for.
But what I find more worthwhile is that I have also made friends too.
There are too many people, to put it bluntly, "out for a shag". Although I love this too, I love to find out about people and chat for a while first, understand what they are there for, other interests.
It also gives you something to talk about afterwards whilst having a fag. **joke**
At least you are trying and are not doing the old one liners routine.
good luck to you
