married to a man with a very low sex drive, don't want to hurt him but I have needs he doesn't meet so not looking for any kind of relationship but really want to play, feel sexy and desirable, which he doesn't do for me, I'm worth more, I don't blame him, but I think my needs are important for my wellbeing, I'm a professional educated woman, ride GSXR, love leather!  a nubie so don't know what my interests are but not interested in same sex at all!  BUT... I haven't experimented so this interest may change