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essex34m
6 days ago
Straight Male, 53
0 miles · Suffolk

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Sadly, I am not able to make it due to work. There is a room available for Friday and Saturday night should anyone require it, I've already checked in online. £75 for the 2 nights or best offer.

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Unfortunately, it breaks my heart to say "we're not going to be able to go to this one". I've organised for a surprise getaway for me and Sally and I've accidently double booked hotels. We hope you all have a great time, (no doubt you will) and we'll see you all at the next one. Love to you all xxx

 Twat.

Good weekend seeing all the usuals. Thank you for organising another good night, look forward to the next one.

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Loz get my name down pet please xxxx DM’s polished ready 

 About bloody time moosh!

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Seeing as my plans have now changed, if you have room for the quiet one in the corner, I'd be delighted to attend.
 Consider yourself added .......to be honest i had already added you so see you there smile xx

 You know me, you could tell me I had a place and I'd still ask to go on the list.

Seeing as my plans have now changed, if you have room for the quiet one in the corner, I'd be delighted to attend.

Thank you Loz for making this happen, and to everyone that had a hand in this. Was good to catch up with the usual crowd, here is to the next one.

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I need some help with the wife as she is on the fence about meeting up with a man. we talk about it and we play games in the bed room and send stories about doing it but she will not commit 

 Then leave her to it. 

You have planted the seed, you have talked about it, but the bottom line is it has to be her choice. If she isn't comfortable with it then maybe asking for help in getting her to change her mind is not the right thing to do. Obviously it goes without saying that I don't know your wife, but many people don't like being pushed and the more you ask the more she is inclined to say no.

Some people struggle with leaving their comfort zones and while the idea might appeal, the thought of actually doing something takes them to where they don't want to be.

I miss the forums as they were when I frequented them, but then saying that, the characters that were found in the forum I had more of a connection with. I just don't get the same enjoyment anymore. Which is hugely sad, as I had some great laughs back then, and made some great friends out of it. 


Thank you for another enjoyable social, spent among good company. A pleasure as always, thanks for all the chats and laughs.

With regards to those who stayed last night at the Premier Inn and was woken by the fire alarm, for those of you who checked out without sorting a refund, ring them and explain you were one of those affected by the fire alarm, and last night will be refunded.



Mods edit:  Please don't post the phone number for the hotel in open chat.

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count me out, swinging days finished people,  have a blast and hope some one fills my sweating dancing shit shag roll lol xx

 Man up bitch tits!

Having wanted to go to this social, this is a thread I have followed with interest.  I had previously only once visited Xstasia (On the SH birthday social, which happened to also fall on my birthday. Where was my present of lifetime Extras, SH you tight gits!) and found it to be a decent and friendly club.

Reading this thread, it appeared to be enjoyed as an evening, but as the thread went on, and this is just me reading between the lines but it seems that all is not as it seems. To be herded into a room in a "this'll do for you lot" kind of way is at odds at what I found on my visit to the club. Having previously enjoyed evenings at other clubs, the freedom of enjoying the available facilities is a big part of enjoying the evening, and returning on later dates. It appears this has not been the case. 

But having just read the comment of "we were asked to keep to our group" I'll admit, I'd have been livid to have been told this. I have read, and therefore it is my understanding that it was a couples night and therefore singles weren't really welcome. This should have been made more clearly to both those attending the social, and those attending the club ad hoc long in advance of the social to give people chance to make up their own mind if they were to go. This is something that should have been taken into consideration between organisers and club staff/contact.

One thing that has also made me surprised whilst reading this thread is the lack of any comment from the organiser, who I understand wasn't present even if it is just to say "Hope you enjoyed yourselves, so I couldn't be with you." Silence is golden.

I've heard it said that the social scene is nothing like it used to be, reading through this thread, it is sad that a golden opportunity to give members a chance to enjoy a social, and clubs if they haven't been to one before hasn't been taken, or  any concerns addressed.

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For those of you considering it, WRATS are a lovely couple. 
 Its been a while .. we may have changed..  they will just have to chance it...lol  cheques in the post

 You might have changed, but I'm sure Rose is as lovely as ever. Hope all is well with you both BTW and good to see you around.

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As usual, a great social weekend spent with the usual suspects, I thank each and every one of you that I encountered for such an enjoyable weekend.

Many thanks for Try2 for putting this shindig together.

See you again in Feb.
 
Been out tarting again??  rotflmao.gif
 Of course not! I have been my usual, well behaved self.
 
Well that will be a first!!

 I'm a reformed character.

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As usual, a great social weekend spent with the usual suspects, I thank each and every one of you that I encountered for such an enjoyable weekend.

Many thanks for Try2 for putting this shindig together.

See you again in Feb.
 
Been out tarting again??  rotflmao.gif

 Of course not! I have been my usual, well behaved self.

As usual, a great social weekend spent with the usual suspects, I thank each and every one of you that I encountered for such an enjoyable weekend.

Many thanks for Try2 for putting this shindig together.

See you again in Feb.

Just got home (via a small detour) after another excellent weekend spent with my homies and my homos.

The weekend was spent with the usual gang, Boobs, Loz, Bethian, Maverick, Liam and Steve, Winact, p_wintuk. I also had the pleasure of meeting some new people, suede_head, Mwbpsx_Mark, orgasmics and Jasmin4183 (who needs to sort her lipstick out, to stop half the crowd looking like they have been punched in the mouth)

Due to real life stuff happening, I was far from being the life and soul of the party (well less than usual) but for all those that made it the weekend that it was, whether I know you or just met you, whether I remembered you or have forgotten you, many thanks to you all it was a great weekend. 

And last, but very much not least, many thanks to Try2 for all your efforts in organising another enjoyable night

Had an excellent weekend seeing the usual suspects, having the usual laughs, many thanks for making it happen.