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Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 68
0 miles · Basildon
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ok... confession time
fess up lads.. who went live on radio 2 this afternoon?
:shock:
there was a certain' pete'... a long distance lorry driver, gave a very good account of himself on our behalf :D :D :D
even though the presenter tried to trip him up
well done.
shame i cant get on the chat room - java goes gaga evry time i try to load- by my estimatio there must be at least 60 of you on line in there tonite :cry:
fess up lads.. who went live on radio 2 this afternoon?
:shock: there was a certain' pete'... a long distance lorry driver, gave a very good account of himself on our behalf :D :D :D
even though the presenter tried to trip him up
well done.
shame i cant get on the chat room - java goes gaga evry time i try to load- by my estimatio there must be at least 60 of you on line in there tonite :cry:
hiya
we are newbies ourselves, so are unable to offer 'hands on ' experience, but if you click on the dogging tab at the top of the homepage there is a section on dogging rules and ettiquette (big word for a friday without spellcheck! ).
we've been reading the ads and forum for a while now and have come to the conclusion that a) its too cold out for dogging b) arrange all dogging meets via PM to avoid unwanted attention-see STICKYs c) its too cold out for dogging d) all good dogging sites are being locked up, in essex anyway, to keep out 'travellers' e) its too cold out for dogging!!!
best of luck and hope summer gets here soon...roll on global warming :twisted:
sue n brian
we are newbies ourselves, so are unable to offer 'hands on ' experience, but if you click on the dogging tab at the top of the homepage there is a section on dogging rules and ettiquette (big word for a friday without spellcheck! ).
we've been reading the ads and forum for a while now and have come to the conclusion that a) its too cold out for dogging b) arrange all dogging meets via PM to avoid unwanted attention-see STICKYs c) its too cold out for dogging d) all good dogging sites are being locked up, in essex anyway, to keep out 'travellers' e) its too cold out for dogging!!!
best of luck and hope summer gets here soon...roll on global warming :twisted:
sue n brian
hi james
our experiences of rio's date back a couple of years now, but may still be relevant..we only went on couples only nights (saturday ) and as our first adventure into the 'scene' it was a bit daunting!
we enjoyed the experience after the initial shyness at being starkers in public for the first time 
. rio's policy at the time was to admit single guys after midnight...although the ratio of m/f before then indicated that some were let in at about 10pm.
the single guys we encountered there were, usualy, well behaved- mostly taking a polite' no thanks' to an offer of a 'massage' upstairs at face value.
however, on our last 2 visits, there were some guys who were most persistant..the locks on the upstairs massage rooms were not very good, we had 'retired' upstairs with a single guy and two more blokes pushed into the room whilst we were enjoying ourselves! they left when we told them to p**s off but the moment was lost!
the next occasion we went the large spa pool was pretty full so we went into one of the smaller spa's. this soon filled up with single guys, a couple of whom had never heard of the word no, or just assumed that sue was 'up for it' because she was there. :x we left the club after that and hav'nt been back.
the answer to your question, from a couples point of view, would be that you should go to rio's for the experience :D :D and always behave in a 'gentlemanly' fashion towards the ladies present. we were very nervous on our first couple of visits and it was a single guy that helped us enjoy the club and took the the trouble to befriend us, without 'coming on strong', he relaxed sue and i to the environment...and was then rewarded :twisted: but thats another story!!!
our experiences of rio's date back a couple of years now, but may still be relevant..we only went on couples only nights (saturday ) and as our first adventure into the 'scene' it was a bit daunting!
we enjoyed the experience
after the initial shyness at being starkers in public for the first time . rio's policy at the time was to admit single guys after midnight...although the ratio of m/f before then indicated that some were let in at about 10pm.the single guys we encountered there were, usualy, well behaved- mostly taking a polite' no thanks' to an offer of a 'massage' upstairs at face value.
however, on our last 2 visits, there were some guys who were most persistant..the locks on the upstairs massage rooms were not very good, we had 'retired' upstairs with a single guy
and two more blokes pushed into the room whilst we were enjoying ourselves! they left when we told them to p**s off but the moment was lost! the next occasion we went the large spa pool was pretty full so we went into one of the smaller spa's. this soon filled up with single guys, a couple of whom had never heard of the word no, or just assumed that sue was 'up for it' because she was there. :x we left the club after that and hav'nt been back.
the answer to your question, from a couples point of view, would be that you should go to rio's for the experience :D :D and always behave in a 'gentlemanly' fashion towards the ladies present. we were very nervous on our first couple of visits and it was a single guy that helped us enjoy the club and took the the trouble to befriend us, without 'coming on strong', he relaxed sue and i to the environment...and was then rewarded :twisted: but thats another story!!!
hiya
we px'd an ( almost ) perfectly good bmw for a frontera 
to enable more in car manouvers 
without injuries.. (i can recomend an excelent chiropractor)..also to tow the caravan of love to nice secluded sites ...we still hav'nt been able to find any couples in essex to join us though :cry:
we px'd an ( almost ) perfectly good bmw
for a frontera to enable more in car manouvers without injuries.. (i can recomend an excelent chiropractor)..also to tow the caravan of love to nice secluded sites ...we still hav'nt been able to find any couples in essex to join us though :cry: hi fran,
as newcomers to both worlds, computers and swinging heaven, i thought that i'd put in my contribution to a 'thread'.
our computer is an old one with no usb port to plug we have some 'good' pictures taken, that was back when we were both a lot younger and slimmer!!
we do have access to a digicamera- i use one for the problem of no pictures is obviously affecting our ad responces. anyone out there got any idea how much it would cost to upgrade my pc?could i go from a digicam card straight into the pc without the kodak docking station?
brian n sue
as newcomers to both worlds, computers and swinging heaven, i thought that i'd put in my contribution to a 'thread'.
our computer is an old one with no usb port to plug we have some 'good' pictures taken, that was back when we were both a lot younger and slimmer!!
we do have access to a digicamera- i use one for the problem of no pictures is obviously affecting our ad responces. anyone out there got any idea how much it would cost to upgrade my pc?could i go from a digicam card straight into the pc without the kodak docking station?
brian n sue
As our 'name ' suggests we are newbies..however we did try a couple of years ago to experiment with a bit of fun at a well known spa in kenning town,nw london. Suffice it to say that the actions of some of the 'clientel' towards my other half - while not as drastic as those experienced by bluexxx- were enough for sue to veto any 'extra curricular' activities for all this time...even though the 'gentlemen' in question did stop when she told them to!
I feel that in order to protect future visitors to the establishment concerned that the moderators should name and shame...or if not would bluexxx pm us with the clubs name so that should we progress to visiting clubs we know where not to go!
Bluexxx...you should have let him have it in the nuts
I feel that in order to protect future visitors to the establishment concerned that the moderators should name and shame...or if not would bluexxx pm us with the clubs name so that should we progress to visiting clubs we know where not to go!
Bluexxx...you should have let him have it in the nuts
Hi
We saw the website last month and thought we may give it a whirl next year!
has anyone thought of contacting the organisers and getting them to join in the cafe'?..unlike the patrons of Rio's they may leap at the chance to increase their 'public'!
keep up the interest..i'll hunt for suitable sites
We saw the website last month and thought we may give it a whirl next year!
has anyone thought of contacting the organisers and getting them to join in the cafe'?..unlike the patrons of Rio's they may leap at the chance to increase their 'public'!
keep up the interest..i'll hunt for suitable sites
Hiya..thanks for clicking
We are trying to find a understanding couple to help us get started in dogging! We've tried putting an ad in...only got 1 reply :cry: . we are family people so have limited kid free time...the time is saturday night 13/12..dont know any venues suitable...sue (the wife)and i (brian) would apreciate couples only for a first time..preferably similar to us..F 5'7 size16-18 46, M 5'11 17st...for watching/being watched...is this too much to ask?
I've read some comments in these columns about removing the sex from essex....perhaps they are right..OR, are they being sneeky to avoid the attentions of the boys in blue?. ..what do you think?..we still wanna go dogging this saturday-bugger the weather! 
hope to hear from someone soon......................
We are trying to find a understanding couple to help us get started in dogging! We've tried putting an ad in...only got 1 reply :cry: . we are family people so have limited kid free time...the time is saturday night 13/12..dont know any venues suitable...sue (the wife)and i (brian) would apreciate couples only for a first time..preferably similar to us..F 5'7 size16-18 46, M 5'11 17st...for watching/being watched...is this too much to ask?
I've read some comments in these columns about removing the sex from essex....perhaps they are right..OR, are they being sneeky to avoid the attentions of the boys in blue?.
..what do you think?..we still wanna go dogging this saturday-bugger the weather! hope to hear from someone soon...................... 