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ezyflyer
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 64
0 miles · Luton

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I'm going to be in Abu Dhabi for a few weeks. Would be happy to meet any couples or females for some fun.

Flidais and Pololady, both very valid posts. She may well be getting it elsewhere, I just doubt it.
Anyway, this is probably my final post on this thread until we have spoken about it together. I will then post up the outcome for all interested parties. It'll be a couple of weeks away as (a) I have to pluck up courage and (b) we have other issues in our home life at present that have nothing to do with sex etc, that are making any thoughts or talk about the subject difficult.
Thanks to all
ezy
Pololady, very good advice and thanks for it, I'll certainly heed it.
Tweeky, thanks for your views, opinions are a bit like arseholes I suppose, everybody's got one.
When I leave my office early to play, not a regular occurrence at all, it is very late at night when the rest of my family are tucked up in bed, so accusations of me leaving my wife to do all of the work while I play are not, in my view, justified.
Is it possible to search this site for an individual member profile? I met somebody in chat earlier and in the middle of the conversation accidently closed the chat and main site windows. Doh! By the time i got back in, the room had disappeared from the server! I've tried searching photo ads using pertinent keywords, but nothing. I know they had a profile because I was looking at it, but can't quite remember the complete username. Annoying I know.
Thanks
Ezy
Thanks for everybody's input so far. you have all had something valid to say, even those who may appear to be telling me off. I am not happy with what I have done, that is why (I think) I am thinking of suggesting the idea to my wife. It certainly wont be over the cornflakes, more than likely after a bottle of wine and some sexy play together.
I understand what some of you are saying about how she may have a friend at work, bi fem etc etc. If you saw how busy our lives were with 3 kids to run around after, you would understand how there is little time for that. How do I find time? I am a shift worker, days & lates (midnight).My job allows me the luxury of coming and going as I please, so when on lates can easily leave the office for an hour or 2 or even 3. Days off when wife at work are also an aid.
If she were interested, chances of meeting somebody from this site that I have already met are very slim, so I wouldn't be worried. Those that I have met, all know I am married so if we did meet up, they would be discrete.
So once again, thanks for your thoughts and ideas, please keep them coming. Let me know also if you would like to know the outcome of our little 'chat'
take care
ezy
Hi all, I have been a member on this site (as a single male but married) for a while, som eof you may have seen me in chat rroms. I have met people from here (couples and single fem) but have been thinking for a while now that maybe I prefer to play as a couple, with my wife. Question is, how do I go about talking to her about it? Somebody in the chat room suggested I sit with her and we talk about our sexual fantasies, bringing up the swinging subject, see if she'll be prepared to help me realise it. Who knows, her fantasy might be the same? Any other ideas / suggestions out there as to how I should go about it?
Thanks in advance
Ozon, I have the same trouble when trying to get into chat at work, its a firewall thing I think. Maybe you have a firewall running that's stopping it. I used to have zone alarm at home and that wouldn't let me in to all sort of sites.
I got something very similar after updating my ad. It came from clairenadam claiming they lived near me and asked me to go the 0906 site to view their pics. I simply replied saying I can't do that as I am on a work pc (the truth).
Gary