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fem_4_taboo
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 55
Straight Male, 62
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hello ppl, I am being a bit thick but what bought everyone back at the same time ? the numbers shouldnt really matter as it only takes 2, or 3 or 4 lol depending on what you are looking for.
2000 members or 2million, you cant meet them all.
just beacause some members dont log in, does not mean they are not still viewing the site etc.
and those that are logging in does not mean they are swinging. or want to with you.
understand you want to maximise your chances/ options but a good profile nd attitude is the key
x fem x
2000 members or 2million, you cant meet them all.
just beacause some members dont log in, does not mean they are not still viewing the site etc.
and those that are logging in does not mean they are swinging. or want to with you.
understand you want to maximise your chances/ options but a good profile nd attitude is the key
x fem x
alot of people will consider this a waste of money and have the opinion that why is it the bad get all the help.
well the families they are hopefully looking at placing this support in place for will be the ones who would be costing society alot more without the intervention.
sadely parenting has been lost in alot of communities. or should i say an appropriate way of parenting.
alot of people who have never experienced good parenting are becoming parents.
i know alot of people will have bad backgrounds and not follow that road, but sadely more people do than dont.
Its all well and good putting these trouble shooters in place but it would i suspect only be once a child protection issue has already been identified. and the family are forced into allowing the intervantion.
more needs to be done at school, sadely they need to be a place where more than the 3 r's are taught and a few trouble shooters could be placed in schools.
the local councils in our area took 52% of the allocated money form central government for support services and spent it on refurbing their offices and buying silk ties. so the money is there it just depends on what the people in ivory towers decide to spend it on.
x fem x
well the families they are hopefully looking at placing this support in place for will be the ones who would be costing society alot more without the intervention.
sadely parenting has been lost in alot of communities. or should i say an appropriate way of parenting.
alot of people who have never experienced good parenting are becoming parents.
i know alot of people will have bad backgrounds and not follow that road, but sadely more people do than dont.
Its all well and good putting these trouble shooters in place but it would i suspect only be once a child protection issue has already been identified. and the family are forced into allowing the intervantion.
more needs to be done at school, sadely they need to be a place where more than the 3 r's are taught and a few trouble shooters could be placed in schools.
the local councils in our area took 52% of the allocated money form central government for support services and spent it on refurbing their offices and buying silk ties. so the money is there it just depends on what the people in ivory towers decide to spend it on.
x fem x
i prefer the word debate,
its good to be with someone who has experiences and can offer a reasoned and thought provoking debate.
argue to me is pointless, nasty, and not the type of person i would want as a friend lover or partner.
i think it works both ways, a woman doesnt want a man who is a door mat, thats not to say i want a bully.
i dont want a soppy man who is ALL about pleasing me, but i want a man who is concerned im finding pleasure.
partnerships, equality and fun.
xx fem xx
its good to be with someone who has experiences and can offer a reasoned and thought provoking debate.
argue to me is pointless, nasty, and not the type of person i would want as a friend lover or partner.
i think it works both ways, a woman doesnt want a man who is a door mat, thats not to say i want a bully.
i dont want a soppy man who is ALL about pleasing me, but i want a man who is concerned im finding pleasure.
partnerships, equality and fun.
xx fem xx
for my daughters 18th i made her a photo album, it was filled with photos, from when i was expecting her, the day she was born, 1st smile, step, tooth, etc etc through out the years. she loved it. although i had all the photos she never had her own copy to keep.
also booked her a full day pampering, massage followed to the hairdressers then to the nail salon ready for that evening out.
xx fem xx
also booked her a full day pampering, massage followed to the hairdressers then to the nail salon ready for that evening out.
xx fem xx
housing association properties are not subsidised, compared to a private landlord yes the rents less typically, but that is due to housing associations being no profit organasations.
in the future because the government are enforcing housing associations to provide a set amount of new tenancies then the housing associations are having to look at setting new rents to that of the (LHA) Local housing allowence. this is so they can start to make a profit so they can fund new builds.
now if you are working and do not recieve any benefits and are un likely to recieve housing benefit then you would pay the full rent, if you are working but eligable for housing benefiy you would pay a % of the rent and housing benefit would top it up to the full rent within the LHA, if you are on full benefits, the rent would be paid in full up to the LHA.
the reasons most people seek social housing is not only due to the rent cost, as those on benefit would get full hb to the LHA private or social, but because most private landlords are a nightmare, do not fix repair issues, often damp properties, and do not want any one with kids or pets.
it is probally in fact prople on a modest income that need teh social housing more as they have to pay all the rent, where by a person on benefit would get a private rent fully paid.
xx fem xx
in the future because the government are enforcing housing associations to provide a set amount of new tenancies then the housing associations are having to look at setting new rents to that of the (LHA) Local housing allowence. this is so they can start to make a profit so they can fund new builds.
now if you are working and do not recieve any benefits and are un likely to recieve housing benefit then you would pay the full rent, if you are working but eligable for housing benefiy you would pay a % of the rent and housing benefit would top it up to the full rent within the LHA, if you are on full benefits, the rent would be paid in full up to the LHA.
the reasons most people seek social housing is not only due to the rent cost, as those on benefit would get full hb to the LHA private or social, but because most private landlords are a nightmare, do not fix repair issues, often damp properties, and do not want any one with kids or pets.
it is probally in fact prople on a modest income that need teh social housing more as they have to pay all the rent, where by a person on benefit would get a private rent fully paid.
xx fem xx
i have always worn stoking or holdups, but i have met some one who enjoys the fully encased legs and buttocks so likes tights.
the thing is i am a plussize (about 20) and i have been to tesco, boots, marks and spencer and all of their tights which state fit size 20- 28 dont actually fit.
so im hoping someone here will be able to recomend a good store or on line site that stocks decent plus size tights.
oh and not to expensive, as another side of this is its nice to um gain entry via eventually ripping open the gussett.
does anyone else enjoy this, or are you all stocking types?
xx fem xx
the thing is i am a plussize (about 20) and i have been to tesco, boots, marks and spencer and all of their tights which state fit size 20- 28 dont actually fit.
so im hoping someone here will be able to recomend a good store or on line site that stocks decent plus size tights.
oh and not to expensive, as another side of this is its nice to um gain entry via eventually ripping open the gussett.
does anyone else enjoy this, or are you all stocking types?
xx fem xx
Quote by apey_kinks
Yeah !! But it`s such fun winding smokers up cos they get so defensive and it`s hilarious watching them trying to defend their irresponsible behaviour :giggle:
Most people who do all those other things would probably hold their hands up and admit being a wally but point out how bad it is to smoke and drive and they`ll deny it all, making excuses just like any other addict does.
:laughabove::thumbup::laughabove:
:evil2: I didnt think me saying ... Smoking frustrates me... how the hell can you drive properly with a fab in your hand?? Would kick up a stink. Ooops sorry
ahh the good old fab, very dangerous thing to eat while driving as those hundreds and thousands can get a bit sticky lol
xx
oi dave
lol xx fem xx
Quote by twiceasmuchfun
So we all appear to agree that dogs should be secured in a vehicle and that smokers are again the route of all evil! Perhaps we should ban all smokers from driving, just to air on the side of caution. Oh and those drivers who fail to indicate, maintain braking distances, drive to fast and to slow, fail to keep their number plates and lights clean, change radio stations, use sat-navs, undertake, cross solid white lines, fail to bring the vehicle to a stand still at a stop sign, cause other drivers to brake when joining the flow of traffic etc. Or perhaps we should just let people drive and when a driver does anything that that causes their standard of driving to fall below that seen as a legal standard they just get dealt with by the police and courts.
My point is that there are so many things that can cause distractions and so many rules of the road, that I doubt that anyone of the previous posters in this thread who drive on a regular basis have not committed at least one moving traffic offence in the last week.
We can't ban sneezing I'm afraid for all you anti-sneezers out-there. Its an involuntary reflex and is a lawful excuse as one of the factors contributing to a road traffic accident.
Happy driving
reading that i have just realised what a bloody good driver i am and how considerate i am.
people who do /dont do all of those things drive me mad.
i always indicate, never tail gate, drive at the appropriate speed etc , maybe i was just taught to drive by an excellent instructor.
i have been known to sneeze, but as im such a lawfull driver its never resulted in a accident.
lol xxx fem xxx
im not sure about the smoking thing, i know people that do will say its only putting your fingers to your lip, but what about lighting up, holding it for 3 min ? (i dont know how long it takes to smoke a fag) not having full grip of the wheel in case of emergancy stop, or while serching to stub it out ?
also the smoke getting in your eyes or dropping a hot fag in your lap.?
i had a situation where a van threw out his fag while driving past me, it came in throughmy window, landed on the back seat and i had to, stop asap to remove the burning fag.
excuse my typing and fag rather than cigerette but just had hand op and its hard typing one handed, now know what most men here deal with lol
xx fem xx
oh and my origional point is why not ensure your dog is safe as you would a child?
also the smoke getting in your eyes or dropping a hot fag in your lap.?
i had a situation where a van threw out his fag while driving past me, it came in throughmy window, landed on the back seat and i had to, stop asap to remove the burning fag.
excuse my typing and fag rather than cigerette but just had hand op and its hard typing one handed, now know what most men here deal with lol
xx fem xx
oh and my origional point is why not ensure your dog is safe as you would a child?
Not dogging in cars, but the actually thing of having a dog in the car.
I was driving home from work today and in front of me was a women driving her jack russle dog having free run of the car.
at times it was up on teh parcel shelf then jumping straight through to the passenger seat and at times directly on her lap.
the speed limits vary form 30 to 60 mph.
Am i the only person who thinks this is a really stupid thing to do?
for several reasons..
if the car has to stop suddenly the dog could either be propelled into the front seat driver or passenger causing injury or straight out of the window.
it has to be distracting to have an animal jumping around the car and onto your lap while trying to drive, therin not only placing yourself at risk and the dog but all other road users.
so i was wondering if you love your dog why wouldnt you make sure they were kept safe?
and if you dont why dont ?
no offence ment, but it really bloody frustrates me.
xx fem xx
I was driving home from work today and in front of me was a women driving her jack russle dog having free run of the car.
at times it was up on teh parcel shelf then jumping straight through to the passenger seat and at times directly on her lap.
the speed limits vary form 30 to 60 mph.
Am i the only person who thinks this is a really stupid thing to do?
for several reasons..
if the car has to stop suddenly the dog could either be propelled into the front seat driver or passenger causing injury or straight out of the window.
it has to be distracting to have an animal jumping around the car and onto your lap while trying to drive, therin not only placing yourself at risk and the dog but all other road users.
so i was wondering if you love your dog why wouldnt you make sure they were kept safe?
and if you dont why dont ?
no offence ment, but it really bloody frustrates me.
xx fem xx
im sure you can set your profile to not allow quick comments?
i dont think anyone can leave anything on mine.
i was concerned about this when it became a feature as although i was told you can remove them, you have to see them first and by then it can be too late.
for instance what if someone posts your tel number etc on there?
x lou x
oh and i hate the quick comments, you have something personal to say send a bloody message.
oh unles im vetting a potential meet, then they let me know straight away if it a imediate no go, i like discretion, if they like quickie coomments its a no go for me.
i dont think anyone can leave anything on mine.
i was concerned about this when it became a feature as although i was told you can remove them, you have to see them first and by then it can be too late.
for instance what if someone posts your tel number etc on there?
x lou x
oh and i hate the quick comments, you have something personal to say send a bloody message.
oh unles im vetting a potential meet, then they let me know straight away if it a imediate no go, i like discretion, if they like quickie coomments its a no go for me.
this is wrong to be on a swinging site,
i remember a female escort who was here on a purely personal reason, not charging nor advertising that was banned when it came out what her job was.
i would be rather pissed off if i went to a club and found the person i had sex with was not infact there with mutual reasons but had had sex with me because they were being paid to.
aslo a side of me thinks the men would be flocking to the paid ladies for a defo shag and probally no restrictions.
it can also lower the respect then given/ shown to the non paid females.
just breads alot of suspicion to me.
and no it shouldnt be allowed on here
x fem x
i remember a female escort who was here on a purely personal reason, not charging nor advertising that was banned when it came out what her job was.
i would be rather pissed off if i went to a club and found the person i had sex with was not infact there with mutual reasons but had had sex with me because they were being paid to.
aslo a side of me thinks the men would be flocking to the paid ladies for a defo shag and probally no restrictions.
it can also lower the respect then given/ shown to the non paid females.
just breads alot of suspicion to me.
and no it shouldnt be allowed on here
x fem x
Quote by HnS
i think they should make it that everyone has to vote. Not on this subject but in the GE.
x fem x
Fem,
Be useful for all elections, however only if they also place on all ballot papers the option at the bottom of the candidate list "None of the above" where you can place your X, i.e. I'm voting but as I don't like any of the candidates or what they stand for I'm not voting for any of them.
Bet we get some very interesting results and if None of the aboveactually get more votes than any actual candidate under what ever voting system they use (First Past the Post, AV, STV, etc.) it certainly sends a powerful message to politicos to improve what they are offering the electorate in that voting area for a mandatory re-run election 6 months later.
actually i very much like that idea, would show them how carp they all are, or really make them work harder for the vote
x fem x
i suspect a large amount of people dont know all that stuff before placing a vote, and to be fair how many people have voted for a party and the party then change its plans?
too many people benefit from the outcomes of the votes but fail to take part, and too many moan but failed to vote in the first place.
maybe if it was made compulsory the schools would ensure pupils took politics seriousely and people would start to feel a part of this county rather than a consequence of it.
so many people i know feel when they are scamming the benefit system etc thats they are screwing those at the top, they dont reaslise its probally their best mate who has worked his/her arse off to pay the taxes so those at the top can pay out that benefit check.
thats just one thing, basically lots of people do not care because they didnt have to.
i also think there should be a option to re elect if they change a policy, you cant buy a hoover and not expect it to work, i dont expect my vote to be watsted on a person who doesnt do what it says either.
x fem x
too many people benefit from the outcomes of the votes but fail to take part, and too many moan but failed to vote in the first place.
maybe if it was made compulsory the schools would ensure pupils took politics seriousely and people would start to feel a part of this county rather than a consequence of it.
so many people i know feel when they are scamming the benefit system etc thats they are screwing those at the top, they dont reaslise its probally their best mate who has worked his/her arse off to pay the taxes so those at the top can pay out that benefit check.
thats just one thing, basically lots of people do not care because they didnt have to.
i also think there should be a option to re elect if they change a policy, you cant buy a hoover and not expect it to work, i dont expect my vote to be watsted on a person who doesnt do what it says either.
x fem x
i have found that single girls on here, meet a single guy and they dont change their profiles but say they only meet with their partner.
I guess if tehy are swinging partners only then maybe they dont want to be considered as a couple, but just play together?
as a single female my self im not sure i would want to give up my personal single identity just because i had met a fb.
i also have at times had on my profile or ads request to meet single bi males, why? because i have actually met 2 single bi males at the same time for a 3 sum, shocking i know but hey it really does happen lol.
also if i happen to meet a single male and it were to progress onto more i would want that male to be bi as thats my biggest thing to be with 2 bi men at the same time.
what really shoudl be outlawed is men who ask to meet gay females FFS they aint bi they are gay why would they want to meet a male??
x fem x
I guess if tehy are swinging partners only then maybe they dont want to be considered as a couple, but just play together?
as a single female my self im not sure i would want to give up my personal single identity just because i had met a fb.
i also have at times had on my profile or ads request to meet single bi males, why? because i have actually met 2 single bi males at the same time for a 3 sum, shocking i know but hey it really does happen lol.
also if i happen to meet a single male and it were to progress onto more i would want that male to be bi as thats my biggest thing to be with 2 bi men at the same time.
what really shoudl be outlawed is men who ask to meet gay females FFS they aint bi they are gay why would they want to meet a male??
x fem x
