It is an oft repeated story. A long term, sound marriage, but with a wife who is unfortunately disabled and has strong conventional ideas: Which means no sex for me. True, I have passed a few milestones, but I have the good luck to have kept up appearances, whilst enjoying good social standards and lifestyle. Importantly, all the main things are in good order. The natural male desires are as strong as ever, often leaving me craving for some discrete sexual activity. On the rare occasions I can get away, I want to indulge myself, without my spouse knowing. I long for the prospect of very clean, NSA, extremely discrete, mutual pleasuring, providing it is with a friendly, clean, reasonably intelligent & mature couple or a lady of similar age to me and having similar social and hygiene standards as me. Whilst I am not Bi, I am certainly not averse to close male involvement.