Hi everyone. i'm a recently single 41 year old Essex fireman looking for fun times with ladies and possibly couples. Because of my separation and job I won't put a face picture on here for public viewing but obviously happy to show people I'm not a monster once we've spoken in private.  I keep myself fit and healthy and ive come on here because i'd really like to try new things. Im definitely NOT pushy and im respectful and not looking to rock anyones boat. I am confident - but not cocky! more of cheeky cockney lol!oh and 100% straight! Feel free to get in touch and ask anything else you'd like to know. x