I am a father of three and a company director. I'm ex-military, ex-police, and (for the last two years) an ex-husband. I want to venture carefully into this wild world of finding fun online. I'm looking for a mentor to show me the ropes. I'm a great hugger, but more importantly, I'm a hilarious guy. I guarantee that our adventures together will involve hours of belly laughing. If I don't make you smile during our initial interactions, I'll give you a free hug. Now that's confidence.

I will always try to send a picture with my first message as I would only engage with those who have a profile pic, or at the very least, send one in a message.