Absolutely, after all, we are being invited into your fantasy, your rules
ive been fortunate enough to be invited to join a couple for their fun, at the begining the conversation was really good, tslking about our individual fantasies, what we were happy to do and not do, we all felt relaxed.
right from the begining, i was told that this was just a 1 off, as they wanted the thrill and to see how they felt after. everything went well, i let them call all the shots, and we had a great time.
not all guys are the same. hope you find the goos ones