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helnheaven
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 67
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Things like this do put things into perspective.
Your collegue is truly remarkable.
Special hugs to you for how you have being feeling lately kiss
Quote by Too Hot

Completely missed the point.

I did? rolleyes Care to explain your point? dunno
Just read what I wrote and take it on at face value. I would not expect Swinging Heaven Moderators and fanatics to be anything other than 100% supportive of everything that SH stands for and every decision that is made. Point is, I don't disagree with what SH does, in fact as a commercial enterprise I very much admire the way it gets the mods to slavishly police the Site and the stats and non verification policy enable the perception to be given that there are getting on for 1,000,000 actively Swinging Members on this Site. That is good commercially if a little misleading in reality.
I have not got a problem with SH because it serves a purpose for us of being an adult Site. We have met Swingers from this Site but we also know that as a percentage there are a large number of 'fantasists' and 'dreamers.' The non swingers would be outed as non players on other sites by verification because they are run by swingers for swingers and regularly sweep dead memberships and inactive players to keep the listings hot. SH is a commercially operated site and the motives are quite different.
Nothing wrong with that - just different
I have to reiterate what I said previously.
What gives anyone the right to 'out' anyone? You want a system that 'outs' people who you 'believe' to be 'non swingers'. I dont think I missed your point.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Wicked!
Anything with the Peter Kay stamp on it has my vote :thumbup:
Quote by westerross
Just walloped a bottle of Rosé in the garden with Angelica - although I was eyeing the Pimms in the fridge. Happy day spent with good people!
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And what a fantastic day for it! Middle of OCT and out in the garden, almost alien init
Quote by welikesinglemen
Ok its not a great picture lol
What about rachel, she looked like gabrielle with her new haircut ...didnt she?

Who? dunno
Im girlie as in, makeup n nails n pampering, ohh I soooo love a good pampering.
Knitting n sewing n crotcheting are beyond me, wouldnt have a clue dunno
Im with Sassy here, I hang out with 'petrol heads'
Blonde love,I do so worry about you sometimes kiss
Your pics cracked me up :giggle:
Smiled and blubbed all at the same time today. Went to buy my daughters wedding dress. :cry: lol
Quote by winchwench
To all those with parents :lol2:
They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.
But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another's throats.
Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don't have any kids yourself.
Philip Larkin
wink

So true in alot of cases.
I was always a little envious of my friends who seemed to have really cool parents
Quote by winchwench
I wasn't allowed out.
Literally. There was a "plot" of land two doors away that all the kids would play on. I wasn't allowed.
My mum was 41 when she had me- and I was clearly an insurance policy to be kept indoors under lock & key to look after my parents in their old age. She hated me going to school. At primary, she'd walk the 20 mins to the school, drop me off, go home, walk back at lunchtime, take me home for 20 mins, then walk me back. She'd then go home again & return at
Friends were hugely discouraged. I didn't go to a single party/friends house til I was 15- nor they mine. To this day, I've never had a birthday party.
As a baby, my mother took me to the chemist's to be weighed- she wouldn't allow the midwives/health visitors near me. I spent four days with a broken arm before my mother would take me to A&E- near the "interfering" health workers.
There's other stuff I won't go into, but my mother tried to control me- but would also attempt to buy my favour with presents.
I eventually rebelled. I was good at rebelling. wink
At 15, a guy down the road wanted me to go out with him. I was terrified of her response. I told him not to call for me, under any circumstances. He did. I locked myself in the downstairs loo for 2 hours, while she explained to him that I wasn't allowed a boyfriend til I was 18. As my 16th birthday neared, she changed her mind to 21.
After proposing to me, he turned out to be gay rotflmao
I'm rambling, and you don't wanna hear all this shit lol
But, in short, yes. My parents (well, mother) tried to stop me having one thing.
A life.

Similar story here only in my case it was Father. rolleyes
Quote by Too Hot

Completely missed the point.

I did? rolleyes Care to explain your point? dunno
Quote by flower411
Does anyone actually read the Guardian?

FB does !!! it`s the only place she can use her red pen in this PC world !!
You are soooo gonna be in trouble for that :giggle:
Quote by Steve
I do have a soft spot for these though

EEEEWWWWWW !! and after all you said !!! rotflmao
OK !!! I`ll come clean to
It`s jap bikes that really don`t do it for me !!
It is definately the "power ranger" look that just kills it for me ...
They look like kids toys
Indeed...........Being an Italian bike it is associated with passion and flair and is not as common as the Jap bikes nowadays...
I appreciate the engineering as well as the asthetics..
Sod the asthetics, just give me someone clad in leather with a few CC's throbbing between their knees wink
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I always liked the old Triumph Thunderbird biggrin
I call my mate a Plastic Power Ranger coz of the sports jobby he rides :giggle:

:giggle:
Quote by kentswingers777
It may not be right 777.. but you have to remember that the commissar gives them voting rights once they've put their mark on a scrappy piece of paper at the Town Hall giving them "citizenship". They can then stick two fingers up to everyone else and the commissar knows that he has another 15 votes in the postbag come the next election (I bet they are told to vote Labour at the next election too - they probably think their stay here is a contract with that as a condition).
As for the 5 European countries they pass through to get here, there must be a huge sigh of relief as they are waved out the departure gate of each successive one!

I doubt it as those countries know, they are heading for the country of the free.
Wht would they want to stop in France? They would get nothing there. So straight to Blighty, a nice person shows them the way to Croydon. What a life eh? lol
Do you two work for the Sun? :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Dave_Notts
Makes ya wonder dont it?? Ive already asked Kent777, he says not but then have you ever known a Sun reporter tell the truth? wink :lol:
Oh and many a true word spoken in jest :wink:
Frequently, as they seem to be the only ones with any balls. :lol: :lol:
Mind you though, could be worse....I could read the Guardian. :lol:
Yep! and thats what they use to think with :lol:
Quote by flower411
I`ve been sorting out a load of family stuff lately and have just found a whole bunch of photos from the forties and fifties of my dad and his mates.
I have seen them before, but that was years ago !!
The story goes, that he had to decide between my mum and a new bike....she wasn`t prepared to ride pillion so it was bigger bike or sidecar !! :shock:
He plumped for sidecar !! .. Now, ain`t that sweet !! lol
Anyway, to the point rolleyes
I think that there was something romantic about a motorcycle back then ....a great throbbing machine that was tempremental and dripped oil all over the place.
I honestly think it`s missing from todays shiny plastic buzzy things !!
Anyway ... I could start rambling if I`m not careful so I`ll just leave this with you and see if there are any comments ..
OH yeah ....and this :lol:

That sounds like someone I know :lol:
I love old bikes so much character, much better than the plastic crotch rockets we have now confused
Quote by kittysin
Yep, found it after a wee bit of googling.
Also found a veritable wealth of cover versions of this song.
All good, but none so good as Bob Dylan, with Adele a worthy second best.

Ya cant beat a bit o Bobby wink Adele is a talented singer/songwriter with her feet firmly on the ground. As an old rocker, I like her.
Quote by Dave__Notts
It may not be right 777.. but you have to remember that the commissar gives them voting rights once they've put their mark on a scrappy piece of paper at the Town Hall giving them "citizenship". They can then stick two fingers up to everyone else and the commissar knows that he has another 15 votes in the postbag come the next election (I bet they are told to vote Labour at the next election too - they probably think their stay here is a contract with that as a condition).
As for the 5 European countries they pass through to get here, there must be a huge sigh of relief as they are waved out the departure gate of each successive one!

I doubt it as those countries know, they are heading for the country of the free.
Wht would they want to stop in France? They would get nothing there. So straight to Blighty, a nice person shows them the way to Croydon. What a life eh? lol
Do you two work for the Sun? :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Dave_Notts
Makes ya wonder dont it?? Ive already asked Kent777, he says not but then have you ever known a Sun reporter tell the truth? wink :lol:
Oh and many a true word spoken in jest :wink:
Quote by kittysin

Lovely sentiments.
This vid, I think, is home made but very evocative.
When I first heard the song, I thought it sounded like a cover version. I'm on a mission now to hear the original.
Well....that didn't take long....a worthy version, but originals always win out.

:thumbup:
I couldnt swear to it being the original but Bob Dylan did this.
Quote by Steve

Any person making a claim has certain criteria to fulfil, if they dont fulfil the criteria, their claim wont be successful

So they can claim enough benefits to keep them in a £1.7 million mansion having paid nothing into the country but when I was unfortunate enough to be made redundant I was allocated a measley £57 per week having paid taxes since leaving school at 16.....
Yep...........Mugs indeed.....
I dont know, I dont make the rules :cry:
Are you bullying me? :giggle:
Quote by TanKinky

I say NO benefits to any immigrant that has NOT contributed to this country for at least 6 months. Why do these people travel through 5 or 6 countries to get here? For the benefits we give them....free.

I have to agree boink
It used to be that after a period of time unemployed that your benefits were reduced in an attempt to encourage you back to work....
Is this still the case dunno
You are sanctioned now. If you refuse to go to interviews/work placements/training courses, in other words, refuse help and refuse to help yourself, JSA is stopped
If i dont attend a 6 monthly interview my benefits just stop, but there is a bit more to it than that,
The last one i got was for pm?? erm yeah ok cant do that and phones to change it they tell me another appointment is in the post. Get the appointment now for after id explaned anytime between 3 and 4 was difficult for the kids coming home from school fair enough point i thought.
Rings up to say cant make that one, gets told if i DO NOT attend this interview my benefits will be stopped. Your punished if you cant make silly appointment times. So what am i supposed to do, why just take my son out of school early or arrange someone to watch him :doh:
Dont get me wrong i agree with the interviews but i am at home all day long why send appointments when they know kids are coming home from school
I know its difficult when you have small kids Tan. The problem is, the way the system is structured it offers no leeway. When you 'sign on' you are declaring that you are available for work at any time. The office who deals with claims, takes this statement quite literally and expects you to be available for anythingat any time. You could try asking to speak the the Manager and explain the situation but in my experience, you wont get very far sad
Its not signing on benefits or jobseekers, the benefits i receive are for the disability(es) of my son I could work full time with what i receive for him
Sorry Tan thought you were talking JSA. To claim any benefit, you have to be available for interview at any time. I would think in your case you have reasonable grounds for requesting an interview fits in with your routine. Try the Manager route and explain your circumstances.
For all bikers :giggle:
The lights were groovy colours,
The band was playin' slow,
We danced just one dance together,
Then she said...
I've Gotta Go Now.
I brushed away a tear drop,
And followed her outside,
Where a long haired yob on a cycle was waiting to gi'e her a ride,
I'll never forget, that freak she went with,
Tell him he'd better leave town,
Cos as soon as me moped's front mud guard is fixed,
Gonna find the creep and put him down.
(Down Down)
When I get me moped out on the road I'm gonna ride ride ride,
When I get me moped out on the road I'm gonna ride ride ride,
When I get me moped out on the road, aint nobody gonna tell mee where to go no
When I get me moped out on the road I'm gonna ride ride ride.
(Funky Moped)

Blue Funky Moped,
Blue Funky Moped,
Blue Funky Moped,
Blue Funky Moped,
Move move move move move funky moped go.
(Funky Moped)
When I'm on me moped rockin' and a sockin' I'll ride ride ride,
When I'm on me moped rockin' and a sockin' I'll ride ride ride,
When I'm on me moped rockin' and a sockin', everywhere I go the chicks are movin and a groovin,
Quote by Steve
So you all have these hoops you have to jump through in order to get your entitlement...
How come others can walk into the country,not having paid a penny,and get everything they need dunno
Just doesnt seem right......Not to me anyway....

Erm, they cant and I havent a clue where the idea comes from that they can :dunno:
Any person making a claim has certain criteria to fulfil, if they dont fulfil the criteria, their claim wont be successful
Quote by Outdoor_sex
I call mine Richard and he is always looking for Judy wink

eeek! confused lol