Ok so I confess Im not 21 any longer.

Been on here a while now so time for an update, Im still straight, blonde with blue eyes and keep in shape having taken up swimming, cycling and freediving…yes that means I can hold my breath for quite a while.

I come on here when the mood takes me, could be twice a week or once a flood. Honest and reliable I take time to compose my messages if I contact you. All I ask is that if your not interested you just say so rather than deleting. I wont be offended plus its just more polite.

As a dominant kind of guy with a fairly active imagination I find flirtatious atmospheres and good conversation more stimulating that porn star style fucking, although that has its place sometimes too. I much prefer to make friends and develop a friendship that one off meetings. Building trust and making friends is far more rewarding and erotic.

Women with sub tendencies intrigue me, my imaginative side runs riot thinking of all sorts of naughtiness but then again strong confident women are also very attractive. I am never sub in any relationship however, the nearest I come to that is an equal partnership where the focus is on the female partner being spoilt with our attentions.

Photography is a big part of my life and I have a very visual imagination, If you ask nicely then im always happy to add this into any encounter.