Hi there, how do you do?

I am a male of 32 living in the Herts/North London area. I am looking to chat to and meet the right people with whom I can get to know and joke with etc, as well as the fun. I have just moved back to this area having been away and would like to meet some people in this area...

I would ideally like to meet someone, get to know them and see them regularly, maybe play as a couple if that's where the wind takes us. I don't just want to increase notches on my bedpost, but genuinely meet someone to experience new things. I am not looking for a relationship, just a regular playmate, if that makes sense. I am clean, non-pushy and discrete.