We just joined too and are having great fun just finding our way around the site. I think your profile is great. Straight to the point and very honest. Not to mention fab pics
Hubby and I aren't looking to do any meets at the moment and I just reply politely when I get an invitation.
I totally 'get' what you mean about getting to know a couple first and building a rapport etc. Personally the thought of making plans to meet a couple I dont know with the sole intention of naughtiness leaves me cold.
The chatroom can be a bit overwhelming and I have found the best way to use chat was to regularly email can build up a bit of sexy banter and then move onto chat at a prearranged time and in a private room. That was very exciting and sexy he he.
Anyway all the best and I hope you have lots of fun on here.
H x
