Big question this one isnt it? Read the Sexual Health advice on this site as well. Its quite informative.
Just wanted to say that this is a great discussion. Thoughtful, witty and funny at times and really getting to grips with issues relating to swinging, sex and sexuality. Brilliant. I' ve only just found this feature. Not been here long. Good site.
bA man/lady after my own heart. (Sorry I don't know which you are. Does it matter?)
How right you are. Bi females are accepted, nay, might I say, encourged by lots of men who seem to find it horny. But try to suggest there may be a little gender bias here and they are likely to have some sort of fit.
I'm a strainght female and I know I'm straight cos I've tried bi and it doesn't turn me on. I don't however have a fit or lose my stiffy, metaphorically speaking, if a woman touches me in a group situation.
How many blokes do?
Yes I think it is a social bias and that people are homophobic.
Each to his own preference I entirely agree. But we are very close minded about gay/bi men.
And my main gripe is its a tad unfair. It is so often assumed and expected (and often by men) that ladies who swing are or should be Bi and that they are in fact inferior swingers if they are not. I myself have been pressured in this area. But apparently the situation is not the smae for men. Girls should be bi, men definately should not. HMMM?!?!
This is a stereo typical view I know but does illustarte a point.
I know I'm not bi cos I've tried. Excuse me sir, how do you know your not?
I'm not advocating men should be bi if they're not but lets be fair shall we.
As to the health issue: Is it in fact greater? I'm not concinved.
Be all do bjs and finge/genital contact with what ever gender and I would advocate pentrative sex with a condom what ever the gender. Is male bi activity within these parameters any more risky than any other kind of sex.
