I'm a geek, an experimenter in the bedroom (I love toys, ropes, etc and a bit of dom/sub play - usually dom but like to sub on occasion) and a generally friendly guy. I'm mostly looking for threesomes/groups (MMF/MM...M). I'm particularly looking to be DP'd/spitroast, and generally used and abused. My girlfriend will be aware and may want to come along and watch, though perhaps not participate! I'm quite fond of anal and love receiving as well as giving; I enjoy toy play, and have a large collection of toys, both conventional and a little more bizzare (Bad Dragon etc).

Generally available around weekends and weekday evenings; can accommodate and travel. Prefer people closer to my own age but could be easily plied by older people if you're intelligent and friendly! Younger I generally have no problem with, and I'm very happy to gently help people who're new get into the swing (heh) of things.

Physically I'm certainly on the chubby side rather than thin and trim, though I've got a fair bit of muscle. If you're looking for a swim club twink, I am not he. I'm an intellectual, practical engineer with an open mind - drop me a line and let's chat! I have a girlfriend who sometimes is interested in getting involved but in any case is always in the know, and expect similar levels of disclosure between all parties - I'm not looking to help you cheat!  However more than happy to be discreet if you're not out etc.