Many thanks to everyone for their observations and PoloLady & Darkfire you've made some really helpful comments and suggestions. One of the most obvious advantages of meeting other people either at Swinging Clubs or private meetings is that if you're an open minded person then you're going to learn techniques that would otherwise have never occurred to you regardless of how imaginative a lover you may be.
This has cetainly been our experience and it has ensured that our private sex life has remained vibrant and passionate which is vitally important when you're in a long-term relationship; we've been together 30years and we're only mid forties. I do take the point about being influenced by the surroundings and the people you're with, and what is enjoyable in those circumstances would not necessarily be as desirable in private.
I think I've always viewed "fingering" as something ham fisted and adolescent and have tended to concentrate on what I've considered more creative and pleasureable aspects of sex. Another lesson learnt of course because it's obviously a part of sex that can give great pleasure to a woman and her lover(s).
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intimate_cpl
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 59
Bisexual Female, 58
UK
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Hello Everyone and Merry Christmas,
My wife and I met a young man from thie Swinging Heaven Website last night and had the most wonderfully sexy evening. He was attentive, polite, well endowed, only an average pussy kisser but when he fingered my wife it was an absolutely awesome spectacle and she rewarded his endeavours with her first female ejaculation.
The way he used his fingers was to start gently and slowly but very quickly build up to the point where it was very physical, almost violent and I was sure my wife would ask him to slow down, she didn’t, she urged him on even more, and then had the most explosive orgasm I have ever seen.
It has left me somewhat confused as my wife has always encouraged me to pleasure her orally, and only to use fingers sparingly and in conjunction with oral sex.
Several question spring to mind
1. Is there any reading material available to improve my technique?
2. How do other women view the subject of “fingering”?
3. Is there a right and a wrong way?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
My wife and I met a young man from thie Swinging Heaven Website last night and had the most wonderfully sexy evening. He was attentive, polite, well endowed, only an average pussy kisser but when he fingered my wife it was an absolutely awesome spectacle and she rewarded his endeavours with her first female ejaculation.
The way he used his fingers was to start gently and slowly but very quickly build up to the point where it was very physical, almost violent and I was sure my wife would ask him to slow down, she didn’t, she urged him on even more, and then had the most explosive orgasm I have ever seen.
It has left me somewhat confused as my wife has always encouraged me to pleasure her orally, and only to use fingers sparingly and in conjunction with oral sex.
Several question spring to mind
1. Is there any reading material available to improve my technique?
2. How do other women view the subject of “fingering”?
3. Is there a right and a wrong way?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Hi there,
We have the house to ourselves this evening and would love some last minute spontaneous fun with a single guy or couple. We have no photos or ads placed at the moment but you won't be disappointed with our appearance, sexuality or desire to have uninhibited sexy fun.
Would prefer to see some photos and a reasonably detailed email - no one-liners please, we're more than happy to chat by phone and then to meet if we get a response that we like.
Paul & Jane x
We have the house to ourselves this evening and would love some last minute spontaneous fun with a single guy or couple. We have no photos or ads placed at the moment but you won't be disappointed with our appearance, sexuality or desire to have uninhibited sexy fun.
Would prefer to see some photos and a reasonably detailed email - no one-liners please, we're more than happy to chat by phone and then to meet if we get a response that we like.
Paul & Jane x
