I am here for occasional escapism with someone fun,flirty and above all sexy who loves a guy who is in control in the bedroom. I am into role play, spanking and use of ties and looking to become proficient at Shibari. I am somewhat of an oral expert and love to use my agile tongue 

I love to give relaxing massages too with my large hands and I am attracted to intelligent, witty and playful women with a positive spirit. I also write erotic literature for fun.

Lets see if we have that all important connection of mind and body? Ben