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Hi, all...
I'm very, very new to all this, so please be patient with me!
I am very interested in getting into this scene (and I hope my missus will after a little persuasion!) but I really don't know where to start!
To be quite honest I'd initially like to just look on and get a feel (is that the right word??) for what goes on but I haven't a clue where to go or what to do.
I suppose a good start would be to find out where to go? I have two bases, one in the north-west (north Manchester to be more precise) and one in the south (Hampshire/Surrey/Berkshire areas). I've checked out the "locations" section, but I'm still unsure about where the best places to go are (especially as I've thought about going to some of those places and subsequently read about people getting trouble from the local thugs). I understand that posting locations etc is a no-no, but if someone would like to PM me, I'd be grateful. I'm not into the gay scene, though.
Secondly, I really don't know what I can expect to see? Inside a car? Outside a car? In a secluded park area? Under a 6000-watt lighting rig
?
Thirdly, I don't know what to look for and when to look for it! For instance, I visited a site - if we're being cryptic, it was near Sandhurst ;) - on a weeknight at around which at this time of year was well into twilight. There were lots of cars there in the carpark but they appeared to belong to genuine dog walkers! Are you lot so good at being discrete that you all look like heathly excercise-types? Or had I hopelesssly mis-guessed my times/days?
Fouthly, what do you do when you find what you're looking for? Do you get out of your car? How do you see what's going on etc? Do you chat about the weather or the current state of world peace? How do you know you aren't intruding on someone who doesn't wish you to be there?
I'm really, really sorry for being such a newbie, but I've got to start somewhere and if anyone could give me some pointers I'd be glad to get a reply or a PM!
Thanks!
I'm very, very new to all this, so please be patient with me!
I am very interested in getting into this scene (and I hope my missus will after a little persuasion!) but I really don't know where to start!
To be quite honest I'd initially like to just look on and get a feel (is that the right word??) for what goes on but I haven't a clue where to go or what to do.
I suppose a good start would be to find out where to go? I have two bases, one in the north-west (north Manchester to be more precise) and one in the south (Hampshire/Surrey/Berkshire areas). I've checked out the "locations" section, but I'm still unsure about where the best places to go are (especially as I've thought about going to some of those places and subsequently read about people getting trouble from the local thugs). I understand that posting locations etc is a no-no, but if someone would like to PM me, I'd be grateful. I'm not into the gay scene, though.
Secondly, I really don't know what I can expect to see? Inside a car? Outside a car? In a secluded park area? Under a 6000-watt lighting rig
?Thirdly, I don't know what to look for and when to look for it! For instance, I visited a site - if we're being cryptic, it was near Sandhurst ;) - on a weeknight at around which at this time of year was well into twilight. There were lots of cars there in the carpark but they appeared to belong to genuine dog walkers! Are you lot so good at being discrete that you all look like heathly excercise-types? Or had I hopelesssly mis-guessed my times/days?
Fouthly, what do you do when you find what you're looking for? Do you get out of your car? How do you see what's going on etc? Do you chat about the weather or the current state of world peace? How do you know you aren't intruding on someone who doesn't wish you to be there?
I'm really, really sorry for being such a newbie, but I've got to start somewhere and if anyone could give me some pointers I'd be glad to get a reply or a PM!
Thanks!
