I'm married here and don't fancy guys at all, however I do like to mess with other guys now and again. There's no physical attraction for me and I don't want to kiss or fuck other guys, or be fucked for that matter. What I do love though is just getting naked and horny with a guy, maybe over a porno, to wank and perhaps suck each other. Its just a mutual blokey thing for me - porno on, pants off, talk dirty, wank, suck, spunk then off we go our separate ways. No strings or commitments. Its just good sharing a bit of intimacy with a likeminded bloke now n again, without wife/gf involvement, and get off on each others cock n balls. I've met a number of guys into the same sort of thing and can highly recommend it.