Hello there strange, yet obviously weirdly interested human of this unusually alluring world of fetishes, and kink. I'm Jamie, be warned you've got some reading to do!

I'm looking for social friends, people I can meet up with on a whim, people who can hold conversations, can create discussion, give honest opinions and debate about views......talk about experiences, how, who, where and the when .......but most importantly I want someone to connect with, grow a spark into a full fledged passionate flame and learn, develop a understanding with them, experiences the world of D/S relationships, Kink, BDSM, Fetishes galore...lay grounding rules, foundations of strict guidelines, but also be allowed to express ourselves......to help each other grow as people.

Working nights. so not much of a social life but a lot of time to daydream, create all manner of fantasies, scenarios. I tend to have 2 personalities

• this friendly, open, honest, genuinely gentleman like persona who is slightly silly, funny, kind hearted.
• then There's this animalistic, horny blind pussy raged thing that will do whatever, say whatever to get his prize

Kink, fetish, bdsm wise my experiences have been beyond vanilla I suppose, the fact I was in a 8 year relationship where I allowed myself to be cheated on multiple times while helping them come out of depression made our sex lives non exsistant. Porn had and still is in a way a way of release, finding more unusual fantastical scenarios, scenes, and fetishes [last year or so ive rather enjoyed the kink videos, roping someone up and treating them like a plaything being in control of when they cum, orgasm, etc]. My sex life then has been very bland, and boring your typical bedroom 3 positioned standard sex, sofa / table. I did once have a quickie in a “friends” car while at my training centre, with people walking to and from their cars was actually rather a thrill. I feel time is right to explore myself, and the wider world, the deeper world and what it has to offer, what people and I could offer. I will literally

For the coming year ive decided im going to start actually going out more, either to see local bands, music gigs, or just to see shows be it comedy, or theatre based or even comicon cons to which ive attended a few this year and made a special group of “con” friends. I want to explore more as well, which im hoping to get a passport [yes i know...........how could someone not have one haha]. Id like to go away to some un-touristy place and just exploring, or relax away from the mundane same old surroundings. Also trying to get paperwork sorted for my joint degree in Creative Writing and Photography as ive always had a keen interest in taking photos, mostly for friends children etc to see how amazing there horses looked and that beautiful flying over huge jumps.

I did have my lip pierced but twice its healed, and I have no tattoos but ive always thought id need a muscular body for them [which I am now doing something about via doing the Insanity 30 exercise at home and hopefully very soon joining my works tiny gym, [plus I have a huuuuge phobia of needles] last few months ive been slowly getting to the point id like to get one, also a few more piercings too! So lets see what happens in the rest of 2016.

I have a long list of TV Shows I need, want, have to watch, there just isn't enough time to do so and watch the ones im currently watching [Arrow, Flash, The Vikings, Gotham, GoT, Supergirl, Daredevil, Jessica Jones]

I like watching movies, ill watch anything and everything at least once, from French noir and sub-titled dramas to Hollywood blockbusters and those films that make you shout and the characters. [Pans Labyrinth, Grave of the Fireflies, Casshern to Donnie Darko, Gran Torino]

Love listening to music be it my little collection of CD's [yes I am old fashioned]. Or Kerrang radio, "where life is loud" but I like my 90's rock / punk / grunge, but then also your pop music has creped in the last few years lol [Muse, Linkin Park, Korn, Limp Bizkit to Lana Del Rey, Biffy Clyro, Florence and the machine]

Being creative is something I like, im myself and with others, playing music, singing, acting, drawing, sculpting, photography, admiring art too.............tis the doorway to some ones heart! I find all creative forums are interesting and you can connect with so much and so many. 

• I'm lazy at times [Love just curling up in bed, all comfy, with a film on].
• I am open and honest about all things.
• Ill do anything for most people, as I believe in you should always help someone in need.
• I daydream about wonderful worlds, fantasy lands, and of futures past.
• I Dream a thousand dreams but live for one one [connected to me daydreaming lol].
• I love listening to music, ive already said I do but just to make sure.
• I care lots about many things.
• I will try my hardest to protect, love and make you feel like the most beautiful creature on this earth
• I over think things, yet sometimes I don't think at all
• I live for a life like the movies, and not just romantic films, but sci-fi, action, drama, even horror and thrillers!

• I hate overly confident people.
• People that take but never give.
• Those who think they are better than any other.
• Liars, cheats and users! [I've been on the wrong end of all of those so no more!].
• When someone says something meaningful to you but they don't actually mean it.
• Hate silence, and being still.
• Dislike negative people, those who constantly say depressing things.

If your now thinking "Hmmm, I say, this young gentle-man seems like a rather jolly fellow, and one would love to make his acquaintance and have a spiffing good time getting to know him" You are either stuck in 1920's upper class Britain or you watch far to many period dramas lol.

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