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jjgittes_ukuk
10 hours ago
Straight Male, 44
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JJ, you are not the only one who has had fun, it’s also about developing friendships as well. If you do not put the effort in to meet the right people then you will crash and burn. Be patient, no one wants someone who rush’s or demands.

 Thanks but you appear to be providing a solution to a problem that I’ve not complained about. 

My point was about the assumption that a single male is desperate (which you have kind of illustrated that point). 

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the assumption that a single male is desperate. 
 One way to avoid that is not to have on your profile that you're willing to meet anyone aged between 18-99 surely.
 Wouldn’t want to be accused of being ageist. 
lol how on earth is having a preference for an age group when it comes to personal relationships being ageist?  We're not talking employment law here.  Everyone is entitled to exercise their personal preferences.
 At a guess, I'd say even the most successful of singletons on here would tell you this is no place for desperation. Single blokes make up something like 85% of the active membership, competition is great.

Let's be honest, the most likely motivation for the vast majority of single blokes to be on this site in the first place is the thought that he might get to have sex with someone else's wife without risk. And in all seriousness there is a real possibility that they might get lucky enough for that to happen... But when you consider the ratio of single blokes to couples that are actually looking for single male company, the chances of them being in the right place at the right time, and their compatibility. The only question remaining in my mind is.. Are the odds on their fantasy turning to reality, greater or smaller than the odds against winning the national lottery jackpot twice in a row.

I was joking re ageism. In any case, if that’s someone’s preference, who is anyone to judge. 

I can’t disagree with you, I’ve had fun on here and I guess I am a ‘lucky one’. For me, at least, there is something uncomfortable about assumptions in general. 

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good point, well made. 

 That was in respect of 2for2more’s point...

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the assumption that a single male is desperate. 
 One way to avoid that is not to have on your profile that you're willing to meet anyone aged between 18-99 surely.

 Wouldn’t want to be accused of being ageist. 

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Sammy and I had a naked fortnite and oral session over the weekend it was lots of fun

 every you single man’s dream.