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10 Mar 2004

Hi All,
Just read through what seemed like an endless stream of good advice. i too stumbled across this site on google (are there any others??) and am new to the scene. I have read all the advise that was provided by the moderators and regular contributors and would like to thank those who replied to my posting in lets meet up (I later found out that I put it in the wrong place :doh: ). I will try and build up my contact base and get to know people on the site.
I think that as stated in previous posts it would be good manners to introduce myself. I am:
John, live nr to portsmouth, 23 (which I realise might be a disadvantage here :doh: ), I would like to meet ladies (I can hear the groans!!) because I am not sure If I am ready to interact with a couple- for now anyway (yes I know it will automatically rule me out of a lot of people's ideas but, I still hope to get to know you whoever you are!! I hope I'm not banghead

). Anyway I hope that is enough. if you know more then do not hesitate to contact me.
Thanks for your time & I look forward to meeting you all wave

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10 Mar 2004

Had me fooled (I know it is not that hard to fool me wink

), I did not know what he was doing!!!

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10 Mar 2004

Thanks to you both,
I really appreciate the reply. I was unsure what response I would get from such a posting. As a newbie I did not know what to put on my posting. i realise that there are far more men accessing this site and trying to use it as an easy medium to get an easy lay but, how do you separate yourself from this - is it as you mentioned patience and persitance?? I do want to go to a Munch (I must admit I am unsure what is involved in a munch, much to my embarassment redface

) and to dogging sites but, I feel a little shy and intimidated by the whole thing.
I realise that i have to put the work in to meet people but, as i can not down load the software for the fear of it being found on my computer and jepordising my position in the shared house (it is hard enough dodgying between windows when my flat mates ask me what I am doing!!) how do I do this? I can respond to postings but, who are the established and genuine swingers like yourselves who would reply, again, is it just trial and error? dunno

Thanks for all the effort you both put into your postings. I will learn from what you have put.
I would like to meet couples as well but did not know whether to write this in my posting. :dunno:
John
lol

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9 Mar 2004

I am fairly new to this as well and would love to attend. Would prefer mid week although I know this could be difficult. Keep me informed.
john

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9 Mar 2004

Dear all genuine swingers
I have been reading some of the other posts on the website (which I have to say is a fantastic medium to meet people) which outline that you have to be genuine to be able to become part of the swinging community. If this is correct how do you demonstrate that you are genuine? Is my other posting too direct or, not direct enough? As I am new to swinging I need help on refining my style can anybody please demonstrate to me how to be taken seriously on this website as a genuine swinger? I feel that some (not all) of the established swingers resent inexperienced (leave it!!) swingers who make easy mistakes in their first postings (which I am sure that I have done) but, unless somebody points out what is wrong with my post how can I be taken seriously?
I am not on here for easy sex, there are infact far easier places to find sex (I am sure you all know some!!!) but, I want to meet like minded people to broaden my outlook on life and meet people who want to enjoy the pleasures that each can give (use you imagination).
Please excuse any typos and I would love as many replies as people can provide.
Thanks for reading the full post,
John,
P.S. If I need to got to a munch as mentioned in other postings can you tell me which is the nearest to me (portsmouth) and how I know where, when and what to expect when i get there? I can not use the chatroom for the fear of the software being detected which would jepordise my position in my shared house.

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2 Mar 2004

Hi,
I am a 23 yo, slim, 6'2", white male from the portsmouth area who is looking to meet like minded females. Initially contact should be made through e-mails so that I can establish that you are genuine. Once this has been established hopefully the fun can begin!! Willing to supply more details and possibly a photo if contact ismade via e-mail
John

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