Right im going to speak from experience on here after speaking with countless single females and couples and say that most guys..probably as high as 80 to 90 % who state on their profile they are single definitely arent!!
If guys state on their profile they cant accomodate in my book this only usually means one of 2 things;
a They arent single i e they have a gf or wife
b They live with their parents
I also realise that some might well have kids at home with them full time but surely they have either relatives or friends who could babysit so they can have a night free for themselves?!! The lady who mentioned this point surely doesnt believe that a single parent never ever goes out whilst his child is growing up and that he is stuck in every night with his child!!
As for the points about living in a house or place that needs decorating i think most guys would find that most women wouldnt really mind too much if a guys place was in a bit of a tip!!
Oh and one final point....if in doubt..ask for a landline number..that usually weeds the cheats out!! Even in this day and age of mobiles most people still have a landline!! If the numbers not forth coming or the guy makes excuses then proceed with caution!!
Here endeth the lesson!!