BTW, hotels that are popular with those couples heading for naturist beaches might be of interest, even if the hotel itself is simply a no kids hotel...  Potentially looking at last week of Nov or first week of Dec

Just looking for the benefit of others' experience.  Thinking of arranging a short holiday in the Canaries in the near future for wife and myself. We dabbled a bit with swinging some years back, no swapping, but enjoyed some times at events such as Night of the Senses and nudist spas. My wife even had a brief bi encounter at one event. Then being of a certain age, my wife reached "the change" and libido took a hit, which squashed her emerging curiosity, so we've done nothing since.

So I'd like to ask for advice on good adult only hotels in the Canaries, that might have an element of "frisson" to them.  Not full on swinger establishments, but somewhere that there's an atmosphere that might intrigue my wife. It would need to be somewhere that we could treat as a "normal" holiday, should my wife not be interested.

I'm sure others have been in a similar position, and I would like to emphasise that I'm by no means expecting my wife to suddenly go into overdrive as an enthusiastic swinger (as often happens in online erotic fiction).  I just want somewhere that she might find entertaining or intriguing (in the hope of reawakening her curiosity), but can also ignore should she wish to do so.  I certainly wouldn't want to book a full on swingers hotel for us or similar, only to have her be upset with me for doing so.

Any ideas or thoughts? Thanks, John