For some time now my expectations of swinging have been changing. I have swung for some years now and I realise that there are some scenarios I like more than others.I have had my share of one night meetings and while they are exciting I prefer to have repeat meetinge to build up a friendship. I understand that you have to start with a first meeting but I would much prefer to find people who are looking for regular encounters. I no longer want to meet every couple on the site but would like to meet a small number of couples with a similar ideal situation is a couple who want to introduce another man into their life. Their reasons for doing this are irrelevant as I am totally non judgemental. It does not have to be full swing and if you are nervous beginners then I might be ideal for you. Your age and looks are not important but your character is. I do not want to spend my time with bad tempered people when I could be spending it with well mannered people with a sunny outlook on do you get out of the meeting? A non smoking middle aged man who is comfortable in any social situation. I am reasonably well educated and have a professional job. I have my own place to provide a discrete and safe environment but would also be happy to visit you. When I do visit I am sensible enough not to draw attention to myself when your neighbours are about.

When I visit I believe it is important to be well groomed. What lady is turned on by someone in scruffy clothes or with dirty fingernails.I hope that you recognise something that you are looking for in this profile. I would be more than happy to chat to you and establish some commonality.