There are many different views about this site and those similar. I am looking for that someone special that I can have both a relationship with and someone who can fulfill my sexual requirements. 

I’m not on the well known dating sites because I’m not looking for a vanilla lifestyle and I know that I will find someone who matches my sexual preferences and cheeky attitude on these type of sites. 

Do not message me if your married, in a relationship or not looking for the same. No point wasting your or my time. 

So, grab a red bull or a latte and possibly a snack. Here’s my ‘to do’ list (it’s taken a good ten years and many experiences both good and bad to know exactly what I’m looking for):

I am not attracted to skinny men or short men (anything under 5ft 10). I love the larger man it’s a huge turn on for me and that’s body size and height. That’s not me judging anyone, it is exactly the same for men who adore skinny women but don't like big girls, and just because I'm a bigger girl doesn't mean I'm desperate - I'm far from it, but I am very selective as you can see from my profile. 

Honesty is a must and I am brutally upfront with my thoughts, opinions, wants and desires.  I don't see the point in lieing about anything but moreso whether your married or not, I really don't care that's your business, but lie to me about it and I will cancel and block. 

If you have to chose between 2/3 of us at a time to arrange your meets, don't choose me. I'm not a second option to anyone and I'm fucked if I'll be a third lol.  I should be your first every time because let's be honest - my pics are all recent and my verifications speak for themselves and if you're lucky enough to meet me in the first place then you know I'm not the 'second choice' kind of girl lol. Cocky, yes I am but I can be it's my profile lol .....

If we exchange details (I rarely exchange numbers)  and we continue our chats on that - I don't play multiple sext messages I'm not a call centre and I won't be put on hold whilst your chat with someone else inbetween our messages. I will again, take you off and move on. 

I like attention. Lots of it and I reciprocate in kind. If you need 2/3 different phones I suggest you delete my number from your secret one I'm 41 not 24 and I don't play games. I don't like men who play the secrecy game - unless you work for MI5 and look like Daniel Craig or Pierce Brosnan and then that's a total turn on. Or Jude Law - JL oh god yes ....... (minus his attire in The Pope - although I probably still would if I'm honest)...

Do not doubt my ability to cut players/liars off, I have many amazing friends on here and I've been on and off this site for many many years so I recognise the nob head type.  I don't exist for anyone's singular entertainment that I haven't connected with. Don't try and play me, I'm not an Xbox..

If you think I've gone quiet or I don't contact you anymore that's probably because I can't be arsed. I reciprocate what I receive and I chase no one, I'm a popular lady and the lack of your attention will be another mans opportunity. 

I dont do bullet meets or glory meets just to make you more popular I prefer straight laced straight talking guys who just want to have some fun and share experiences with me. Put in the time - so will I - act like a cunt - I'll  treat you like one. Simple as that. If your sending out meeting requests like the worlds ending tomorrow, with all of your private info on there before even getting to know someone then please delete mine. 

Desperate men are unattractive and have ugly personalities - and are usually full of shit.  I'm an individual and I like a man to make the effort with me - I don't play Russian rhoulette with my sexual health even if you do. Sometimes little is more. (Unless it's cock size). 

I cannot and will not sit online all day flicking my bean or groping my own tits. Although a very early morning wake up call is a treat ;-p

I prefer non smokers and kissing someone who does leaves an awful taste on my tongue and the smell is a bit offputting. Same as men who have awful teeth. It takes minutes to brush in the morning and at night - if you can't and your mouth looks like something from Shrek.... We aren't going to get along.....

I am a big girl and it’s seemingly getting harder to find a genuine, open minded man so if your out there say hi you’ve nothing to lose. 

Do not message me with the boring cock pics or - fuck me now ........ I will not reply and I will just delete. I prefer talking to people with pics - I like to see who I'm talking to.

If I haven't answered your mail - I am not ignoring you I am busy replying to mail. Ok - some of you I might be ignoring but, as I've mentioned above, I don't do cock mail, If you mail me the generic one click " I would like to know" without bothering to take the time and actually mail me I will also delete. 

I have a brain I tend to use it and I have a smart mouth if you can keep up. I'm looking for someone who wants another someone to play with I won't play with someone who wants to play with everyone. I'm not a pic n mix station and I won't be part of a collection. I'm an individual and I prefer to be treated like a princess rather than a chewy flump.

I know how to use my body and I love my body to be used. If I'm not your type then move along sweetheart I am confident with who I am and that's all you need to know. Don't get me wrong - i have my insecurities as does everyone - but highlight those in a message to me (I like the bigger woman) or (more curves the better) I'll delete and ignore. So be careful how you contact me. I'm a pissy brat and I am petulant at the best of times. 

I will not accept friend requests if we havent chatted and I will not meet you for the same reasons, like I have already said I don't do blind date or Bullet meets it's not my thing, so do not message me asking to meet me before we've even chatted. I'm sure there are plenty of greedy girls on here who will meet you without knowing anything about you. That's not me.

I have a huge sexual appetite so I'm looking for a man who has stamina and good staying power (aren't we all ladies)... I think it’s important to dress up in kinky outfits and surprise him with cheeky play,  sex can get stale and it’s important for both parties to keep it fresh and exciting. 

I am not attracted to lazy, foul mouthed men. Don’t chat with me like I’m one of the lads it’s a massive turn off. I don’t like videos of other people fucking or pictures of you with other women. Again a huge turn off. And yes people actually do this lol. 

I also PREFER men who look after themselves and have their cocks smooth and clean shaven - body hair isn't my thing (gag) unless it's the chest.  I love men that can make me laugh, not in bed that would be awkward, but in general. 

I avoid needy insecure men like the plague. I don't need a man child go change your own nappy. Confident men who know what they want and what they like draw me like a moth to a flame. 

So, you can see my interests and what I'm looking for,if you fit into that then say hi, I only play safe and I think that's all people need to know. My other 'essentials are - do not pm if you don't work - I'm not scaffolding and i wont support you....

If you need to get the bus or train to meet me, id probably advise that you don't pm me either - I'm not a chauffeur or a taxi driver, i like nice things, everything i own is my own and that's how it will stay. So I'm 5ft 4 (I'm sure there's a half in there but the chart says I'm shrinking).

Oh, I have to now add this - tedious... I don't cam wank, it does nothing for me at all I don't need to sit there legs astride masturbating for your pleasure when all I'm probably thinking about is "I need a drink" , "what's on the tele", "is that paint dry yet"... 

Do not ask me to private room with the intention of stripping down. I do not private room cam. I've told you who I am and what I'm About, my size, my looks, iv got pics ask to see them as long as you have pics I don't chat or exchange for those who don't have the same.

Enjoy the ride and have some fun, that's what we are all on here for...

I am very submissive although I'm told by those who know me my personality is more dominant, but I would think that is due to my job and my working arena so don't let my resting bitch face deceive you - I'm a kitten really... inside I'm a good girl who likes being controlled.

I'm a very private person and my personal life is just that so don't intrude unless i offer it out, if i have children or not is of no-ones concern - unless your a childminder... I'm a lady on the streets and a filthy bitch in the sheets as i personally believe every female is.

I like rules and boundaries, I do not need or require daily contact - as long as i know what the conditions are. I'm not psychic so please don't think I have a crystal ball at home that tells me your routine.

I need a dominant man that can control me. I have a smart mouth and it tends to run away with itself. 

So...... if your interested and not exhausted by my lengthy bio blog...say hi ..xx Thanks :-)