This is quite difficult to write, where should I start? Probably best to jump right in.

I am a 40-something(inexperienced) bisexual man living in the St Albans area. I have had a couple of quite exciting, albeit brief experiences with other men (mutual masturbation and a little bit of mutual oral pleasure). While I found them enjoyable I felt there was something missing. After some exploration I think I've found what's missing. It's not one thing, but two.

First of all I have discovered that I am a latent cross-dresser, I simply love wearing sexy lingerie. Not just from the perspective of getting aroused, but also wearing women's clothes as a matter of course on a day to day basis. If I'm honest it's quite a turn to go shopping at Tesco's while wearing lingerie under my conventional clothes. So I would like to meet men who have similar feelings and wishes as myself. It doesn't have to be a sexual relationship (but that would be very nice), it would just be very enjoyable to spend some time with another man getting dressed up together.

Second, I am very submissive, but have never really explored this side of my nature. Consequently, I would like to meet a dominant women who could help me develop this side of my character. After much research I think I understand what it takes to adopt this lifestyle and I am willing to commit to that. I don't know what my limits are and I would like discover where they are.

The perfect scenario for me would be to enter into a sub/dom relationship with a dominatrix having me and another man as her subs/slaves. My fellow slave and I would be required to satisfy all our mistresses needs, which would include us being feminised and indulging our mistresses whims and fancies in terms of my fellow slave and I having sex together.