My profile shows I have been a member since February 2012. I was a member previously with a partner and even before that as a single. I've been involved in the scene since around 2003 - I've been using swinging sites since around 2007. I'm a verified member.

I'm straight. Non smoker. Social drinker. Socially aware. I have a prominent job and so there is a need for discretion online. That being said there is nothing worse than long unnecessary protracted online 'chat'.

Generally if there is consideration of meeting or pursuing something I would expect reasonable verification that all parties are genuine and interested.

Anyway that's the boring part and has either put you right off or you are still reading.....

I'm here primarily to try and find couples and single fems ideally for regular fun. I can both accommodate and travel.

I have been to clubs such as AbFabs, the old Club Lick, F Club and others and parties as well as more intimate gatherings and private meets.

I'm single because of choice but have needs to be be pleased and to please. I love straight MMF and group fun as well as 1 on 1.

Despite all this, I am fairly grounded and recognise that all of my likes or experiences may not be those of others. For me this lifestyle is separate to my day to day - although not entirely secret from those closest to me.

I place ads on occasions and am always interested to hear from genuine people.

I hate winks and they indicate your lack of personal interest. If you can't be bothered to write how can I expect you to have energy for anything else?