We're a professional, well-educated couple, secure enough in our relationship for Laura to enjoy an occasional fling with another man. She prefers slim, fit men, not too hairy, not too young and immature, but otherwise it's charm, confidence, intelligence, personality and sense of fun that counts. Laura likes Simon to be there to meet the man who'll be having his way with her. Simon will never be too far away while she's enjoying herself (so she can phone him to come back and reclaim her when they've finished), but he probably won't be in the same room.

Update December: No friend requests please. Laura is otherwise occupied at present, so there's probably no point in making contact. Unless, of course, you happen to be a tall, slim, good-looking, well-educated, articulate man who would appreciate an opportunity to amuse, flatter and seduce Laura, in which case an exception might be made.