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Over 90 days ago
Gay Female, 45
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Quote by gingerjo-lee
lava
are u going ? im just trying to find a gf to come with me as lee is working but i dont fancy going alone
will deff let you know nearer the time
thanks jo x
We're deffo thinking about it Jo, we should know what Em is working by the start of next week so will know if we can make it - will post here when we know.
Splendid I know exactly what you mean but the words to describe how I see it seem to have done one at the moment 
The more random version of what I would try to say more eloquently usually is as follows:
Using the term 'girl on girl' might help to keep it light (as do playing/fun etc), sort of non committal to the bisexual sense of any sort of fem/fem interaction??
I think full swap can't necessarily apply with swinging where lesbians are concerned as they'd only do full swap with another lesbian couple in theory and they should/would already know that girl on girl was not really a good term for it and would understand the dynamics of it better by default (if I can generalise like that)
There's also a distinction between bisexuals and the sexually bi as to how they see any fem/fem contact too - in some respects it might well be secondary to their relationship or how they see sexualities, that's not to say that it should come across as such to the person who has joined them or in any ad they place looking for someone but doubtless it does in some cases.
<<<<<off to ponder why brain is not working properly tonight!
The more random version of what I would try to say more eloquently usually is as follows:
Using the term 'girl on girl' might help to keep it light (as do playing/fun etc), sort of non committal to the bisexual sense of any sort of fem/fem interaction??
I think full swap can't necessarily apply with swinging where lesbians are concerned as they'd only do full swap with another lesbian couple in theory and they should/would already know that girl on girl was not really a good term for it and would understand the dynamics of it better by default (if I can generalise like that)
There's also a distinction between bisexuals and the sexually bi as to how they see any fem/fem contact too - in some respects it might well be secondary to their relationship or how they see sexualities, that's not to say that it should come across as such to the person who has joined them or in any ad they place looking for someone but doubtless it does in some cases.
<<<<<off to ponder why brain is not working properly tonight!
I think that teachers have a hard job getting kids to take on board the basic skills needed to be able to learn and academically achieve and (to generalise to keep the issue simple) putting a duty of care on them to teach morals and motivation as well as the basics is not necessarily unreasonable but given the current climate, perhaps a touch unrealistic.
Was bluddy lovely!It's fair to say that it is down to individual choice as to whether or not someone does bareback, hopefully the majority of folks on here would state clearly, even at a meet, what their stance on it was and feel confident enough to stick to that.
Going back to a point made earlier in the thread and coming from the gay community I find the concept of "bug chasing" alarming Although it is prevalent in only in gay men at the moment, there's nothing to say that others wouldn't make the same choices at some point on the future so deliberate infections might not be as far fetched as they seem.
Going back to a point made earlier in the thread and coming from the gay community I find the concept of "bug chasing" alarming Although it is prevalent in only in gay men at the moment, there's nothing to say that others wouldn't make the same choices at some point on the future so deliberate infections might not be as far fetched as they seem.
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In fact I've always wondered what attraction a strap-on really has in girlie sex - unless it's convenience - or penis envy (I would say that wouldn't I?)
From my experience what girlies get from being together is sensitive, meaningful and very well targeted sex. And by sex I really mean stimulation.
Tune, just picking up on part of your reply - nothing personal, just made me think about a few things that I thought I might throw into the hat :thumbup:
It can be about a lot of different things but simply the feeling of being penetrated is the main one in my (and the Mrs's) experience.
What people don't always think about is that when using a strap on we're still having sex with each other, it's just a different, convenient way of getting off basically.
I'm not sure about the "sensitive, meaningful and very well targeted sex" thing though if I'm honest. I'm going to stick my head over the parapet here though and maybe suggest that girl on girl sex can be very different when it's between inexperienced/bi-curious women, sexually bi-women and women for whom bisexuality or lesbianism is their overall orientation.
If someone's foray into sex with other women is so they can experience a gentler or more female centric kind of sex then maybe you're comment is spot on, however, ours is usually vastly different to that but that might be because we are having sex with each other within the parameters of our relationship rather than just having sex with another woman - if that makes sense
???Maybe that's the reason that girl/girl strap on sex doesn't really seem to feature a lot on the swinging scene perhaps. In my experience lesbians don't tend to use strap ons until their relationship is well established so maybe the introduction of their use is a paralell to married women who decide that they'd like to use vibrators - its all about enhancement of sex and trying something new to keep things fresh or introduce a new dynamic.
And now, I'm going to stop rattling on
I don't really think they did anything wrong. They had no emotional connection to the child and as (semi) trained PCSO's they are meant to keep a level head and do the best in a situation that they assess.
Paraphrasing what other posters have said, if it was the case that the lad was already under, not visible and no sign of life, it would be debateable as to whether or not it would be worthwhile risking two more lives in trying to save him.
It does beg the question as to why the parent/s were not with them in what is evidently a risky situation. Most parents have the sense to cover shallow garden ponds let alone let their kids play unsupervised near a deep pond in a park - just my opinion of course.
Paraphrasing what other posters have said, if it was the case that the lad was already under, not visible and no sign of life, it would be debateable as to whether or not it would be worthwhile risking two more lives in trying to save him.
It does beg the question as to why the parent/s were not with them in what is evidently a risky situation. Most parents have the sense to cover shallow garden ponds let alone let their kids play unsupervised near a deep pond in a park - just my opinion of course.
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Good to see you posting again Mattmoleman.
One fine female in the chatrooms is notorious for falling asleep on cam (no names to save embarrassment) - at least once with accompanying snores on mic.
I've also borne witness to this and the furore that followed it. Is there such a thing as a snoring fetish
?? This is so so very sad. Debb was one of the true stars of BBW, always with a smile and a chat, one of the nicest people I've encountered whilst being a member of SH.
Condolences to her nearest and dearest, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
And Debb, save space for all of us on that cloud up there x x x
Condolences to her nearest and dearest, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
And Debb, save space for all of us on that cloud up there x x x
I think the best thing to do would be to just approach your partner about your thoughts in an honest and open way. At the end of the day if she's not interested then any other comments about what the better first time experience would be aren't really necessary.
If she is interested, see what she wants and then start advertising accordingly. Apologies if the advice seems over simplified but its what I'd do in your position.
Best of luck with whatever you decide to do
If she is interested, see what she wants and then start advertising accordingly. Apologies if the advice seems over simplified but its what I'd do in your position.
Best of luck with whatever you decide to do
Thanks Serendipity for letting me know - I'll save my hard earned cash and do something more exciting with it methinks!! Sounds like it would be a waste of time for the broad minded as you say, I'd have a better education in the market at Pride in Manchester at the end of this month
And Essex, anywhere that charges £2 for a can of pop that isn't a 4 star hotel can keep it - and even the hotel can keep it - I'd be off to the local offy first :lol:
And Essex, anywhere that charges £2 for a can of pop that isn't a 4 star hotel can keep it - and even the hotel can keep it - I'd be off to the local offy first :lol:
