Hi Dean , we are both up for this!, please add us to your list, many thanks,
Andy and Kat x
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Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 61
Bi-curious Female, 59
0 miles · Cheshire
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Warming the Bed
Interesting thread which finds me sitting on the fence as can see both sides of the argument,I,ve been married 16 years and have in the past probably bemoned the fact at some time that "my wifes sexual needs were on a differant level to mine" whilst always feeling a deep love for her, I admit it i,ve been a "cheat" ,and later been "given a taste of my own medicine",but now we are swinging together as a couple and have never been happier or more solid,yes we,ve been lucky and found after a very long time that sex and" exclusive love" don,t always come wrapped in the same package,and have discovered like many people that sexual jealously is a very bad demon indeed,how many otherwise happy and productive relationships end because someone shags someone else , in maybe nothing more than a " mad" moment"? Swingers should be wary of moralising,"people in glass houses."..etc but that does,nt mean we can,t have them! Anyone shagging behind their partners back is "cheating" rather than "swinging" however they justify it !. As a side issue I think dogging phenomenom ( can,t spell that word? ) has totally changed the face of swinging and the exhibitionists and cples seeking the extra male/s amongst us ( don,t get me wrong ,they make the world go round! lol ) have encouraged more men to cheat but consider themselves swingers than ever before. Real swinging is about sexual liberalism , honesty,and respect for your own patners needs and feelings,f--king around will always be just about f--king around!
Warming the Bed
Did try " help" but could,nt find answer or see wood for trees ( one of the two!) I want to change my username to reflect being a couple,but can I do this without losing my " been a member a while and not upset anybody yet" status, ie do we have to re-register and become " newbies" ? as my existing username is linked to ARL or whatever,won,t opening a new account with same e-mail address look dodgy?
Thanks
Thanks
Warming the Bed
I,m quite a fan of daytime dogging as love to get out into the countryside anyway,I live in Cheshire where I use a forest location and work in bedfordshire where i use a "downs" location,forests are great even if they have other people in them,because you can still find your own private secluded acre or clearing and hear anyone else coming! The big drawback for popularity is probably work! as weekend s do tend to be very busy at most locations,but lots of fun can be had weekdays even at the height of summer in many spots. So the cons are dog walkers and hikers and work! the pros, less druggies,boy racers,no hoards of males,no POLICE ! car parks open,and a legitimate reason for being there all day without a dog! Finding like minded people relies on a slighty differant set of signals etc,but you learn to adapt to the situation,for example i,m probably going out later,i,ll park in a small picnic area carpark facing the road,walkers may come and go,but any couple driving past will see me/us sitting there and may pull in to check it out,in the daytime you can follow a couple into woods as it,s a place where people go walking,if they start anything they know damn well your not far behind them if they don,t they don,t turn round and go back,when you,ve done it for awhile , it,s the same as night time dogging you just know whether people are there just for the nature or not! 
Warming the Bed
Hi everyone,wonder if anyone fancied meeting up later for an evening strole as is going to be a lovely evening,don,t even have to meet for sex,a strole and a chat would be fine,all welcome exhibitionist couples more so! lol either 7 ish or later at about 9,will just be me Andy tonight as been banished for girlie chat,but guys welcome
Warming the Bed
Mine came to me because it had a nice ambiguity to it in the old msn chatroom days,it could be seen as rude :P or romantic 
depending on the room,I was pleased to get it as a "pure" e mail addy too,as in no hypons or numbers so i,ve kind of stuck with it! Have found though curiously that I used to get a lot of replies and pms in chat from single men,do you think "lip" and "tease" are trigger words for trolls or does it just sound like a female name? Anyway need to change it as couple now but not sure of name yet,how do you find a suitible avitar for a couple? and can i change my username without losing my"been a member a while credentials? 
all answers welcome!
depending on the room,I was pleased to get it as a "pure" e mail addy too,as in no hypons or numbers so i,ve kind of stuck with it! Have found though curiously that I used to get a lot of replies and pms in chat from single men,do you think "lip" and "tease" are trigger words for trolls or does it just sound like a female name? Anyway need to change it as couple now but not sure of name yet,how do you find a suitible avitar for a couple? and can i change my username without losing my"been a member a while credentials? all answers welcome! 
have a good one everyone!
: :happy: Warming the Bed
Hi all , travelling between my two bases today, and would love to detour to yours or to a lovely country spot close to you, all offers considered! I,ts almost like spring out there! so come on get out and about if ur not at work. 
Oh forgot to say, am, male,42,5'11,slim,non pushy and like to help others with their fantasies! :)
Hve a good day all :)
I,ts almost like spring out there! so come on get out and about if ur not at work. Oh forgot to say, am, male,42,5'11,slim,non pushy and like to help others with their fantasies! :) Hve a good day all :)
Warming the Bed
Hi again,nice to see it,s all still happening I will be two,so if any ones getting together to go to fun42 please count us in! anyone else staying at the botel? decided to stick with where I,ve been but be nice to see some other hotels too! by the way regards to all,been here quite a while but don,t say too much! I,m going to try harder! :D
I will be two,so if any ones getting together to go to fun42 please count us in! anyone else staying at the botel? decided to stick with where I,ve been but be nice to see some other hotels too! by the way regards to all,been here quite a while but don,t say too much! I,m going to try harder! :D Warming the Bed
The Amstel botel is also worth looking at for accomadation,spitting distance from central station and the red light district,tis about £60 for a double room ( waterside) with buffet breakfast which is a real feast,(plenty of hot stuff as well as continental cold)also the fantastic floating chinese restaraunt is just along the quay from it.
ps thanx for adding us to the list too! xx
ps thanx for adding us to the list too! xx
Warming the Bed
Hi would love to be added to the list too,the Winston is cool and fun4two comes highly recommended,I should be able to get a party discount at Casa Rosa as have done business with them before ( an excellant classy show including drinks,no rip off! ) incidently at time of writing, flying Luton to Ams on the 21st,returning sun 23rd is INCLUDING taxes! get it booked now peeps xxxx
