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lofty1
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 52
0 miles · Essex

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sadly most places now overun with boy racers or complete dickheads dogging who think everycars fair game and hit it as soon as the y pull in no discretion or politeness now.
shame realy because there a few of us left who understand the word no and are polite
as for places to go most patrolled now including half way by the police or the local kids now whats going on so come along to mess it up
i know of few quiet places around but would now never advertise on here as soon as you do seems like acoach load turns up.
anyway enough of the rant if there are any gen doggers left inessex drop me a line maybe we can swap locations or if theres still that elusive couple looking for a respectible discreet guy than please drop me a line
Understand your frustration with site info ,few years ago you would`nt have had any trouble as fellow doggers where few far between so info exchange was easier nowadays unfortunately you tell someone of good spot he tells his mates and next thing you know there organised coach trips lol
not only that advetised sites are accesible to boy racers and the authorities etc
Also and dont take this the wrong way but there are an awful lot of guys on here and elswhere who post there part of a couple when there not just to get the info ,and as your profile says your single male ,but your post says have new gf want to try its open to debate whether its true or false.
maybe arranging a meet or change your profile may help or get in touch and maybe we could arrange something.
Good luck
Hi guys
either i was in the wrong car park or it was a no show
was there this pm for 4 hrs
had to fight the gays off lol
maybe next time
Hi to Dirty doggers
well done couldnt have put it better myself,been doing the rounds so too speak for few years more than i care to remember and seen the decline in participents and increase in the main beam convoy following brigade which has effectivley killed off most sites.
as you suggested have and always have parked up and waited and seen the morons drive in and out of car parks all nite chasing every car up and down when it drives by,or the "just going down the pub dear " brigade who always disappear when the closing time beckons.
there sadly appears tp be no patiemce anymore and a hardened attitude amongst some so called doggers that any couple and i mean any couple dogger or courting couple is there for there sole entertainment so parking right next to them and not even waiting for a signal or for them to turn the engine off they invide their space and then stand wondering why couple drive off,but of course what they then do is procedd to follow or should i say chase the couple half way round the county.
Ooh got to get of me soap box before i do myself a mischief
Always the eternal optimist me you never know
Hi respectful discreet easy going genuine Essex based guy seeks that elusive meeting with couple or fem for friday nite.
if your around and intereseted then please get in touch,can travel so surrounding areas considered ,let me know and we can take it from there.
Hi out and about on friday nite if there are any interested couples or females looking for some discreet non pushy encounters.
if intereested then please make contact and we can take it from there.
Hi thanks for the advice at least you were prepared to make a comment interesting that there is now over 200 people who have looked at the post
I understand that my profile is ok (according to other people ive spoken to on here)and photos are available to be seen if asked.
The reason they are not public as have had bad experience on another site and when out and about few years back another chap had dozen pictures of couples he banded around reckoning he had seen and been with.
Turned out he was a ball...ter but the point is he had downloaded the pics.
Perhaps if pics where all private then it may result in more conversation on here ,were all adults and i`am no david beckham but can take rejection as we all have to fancy who we meet,again was talking to couple locally who requeated my pics no probs sending she came back i wasnt what she was looking for,shame but at least she was honest which surely thats all we want.
Again going back to early comment over 200 reviews of the post and no one contacted me.
So is this site not worth the effort?
or theres no people in essex ?
Too date 114 vistors and not one reply even to say no thanks
guess got it wrong thought this was a swinging site obviuosly not
maybe i should b.......t and say i`am the best lover your ever had and my p.... so big it enters the room before me,or just keep perving at the pics which i expect half the blokes in here do anyway.
was thibnking of going there myself next week subject to the weather would love to stumble across you guys
please keep intouch and who knows
Quote by lofty1
Hi genuine easy going guy seeks the elusive couple or fem for meet this friday,absolutely gen and not a time waster.
if your interested then please feel free to make contact and we can take it form there

Phew 95 peeps looked at this and no takers not yet anyway heres hoping
Hi genuine easy going guy seeks the elusive couple or fem for meet this friday,absolutely gen and not a time waster.
if your interested then please feel free to make contact and we can take it form there
Hiya
if interested available friday local too you if guy is what you seek
If your interested we can converse more send oics if required.
Hi easy going discreet guy who understands the word "no"etc out and about friday nite if theres any like minded people around who fancy a chance not a timewaster if somethings arranged will turn up same expected in return please.
Hope to hear from interested parties soon!!
Heres hoping
unfortunately have to agree travel across the south east and it appears that there is a blitz going on either by police or local authoritys / forest commission in closing or patrolling areas of interest.
recently visited a site in suffolk (not listed) thats had a police car parked with 2 Pcos in it every day for 4 hrs.
obviously no serious crime in suffolk
very interested in meeting by arrangement although based in essex travel is not and issue,if you are interested then please feel free to contact and we can take it from there
thanks upnorth i`ll be more specific next time but heh still had over 200 interested parties if only it had been like that on the nite lol
but as an update usual idiots about think every cars a show and just for them but patience does pay of had my 1st mmf thanks to the couple you know who you are best 3 hours i`ve had in years.
amazing 45 views and no response I promise i dont bite
Essex based guy easy going discreet seeks friday nite fun can travel not timewaster if ure interested then please drop me a note etc
Out and about friday nite if any couples or fems fancy meeting with genuine easy going guy,can travel etc then please post me a note
just a follow up note interesting to see that medics post has been looked at by 123 people,if only here in essex that many people where actually out and about actually meeting.
If your going where i think your going have had the same thoughts,having said that with the antics fri and sun from some of our fellow doggers not surprised there are nobody about.
if you or any couples looking to meet discreet easy going guy then please get in touch and who knows
Have been to this place couple times this year apart from the signs and odd unmarked car not seen a graet deal more info would be appreciated send me a private mail if that ok
Just read your post,if its not too late would be interested in meeting up,i`am in the area on thursday again if you are interested,please have a look at my profile and if u like then feel free to get in touch,pass on mobile number etc.
Hope to hear from you soon
Male gsoh easy going discreet and understands the word no ,seeks that elusive couple for fun this week so if theres anyone about than please drop me a line a we can sort something out heres hoping
Just read your ad etc although not local I do get about up that way often especially during the day and would appreciate coming across you if you can excuse the pun in the woods.
if your interested then please feel free to get in touch
Recently visited a couple of spots near me to no avail one in particular was like a morgue,but it raised an interesting question cause if i was a couple i doubt i would participate in this hobby of ours.
Why you my ask when you sit in the car for hours on end over a peroid of time and ive been do this for a while you cant help noticing the antics of your fellow doggers and i word this loosly cause some of them are frankly stupid,its what i would describe as in your face dogging we have all seen them following cars in and out ,up and down car parks,straight onto something before the headlites been turned of you know the people i`am talking about sadly their probably not on here this was the case last week and its the same cars all the time i admit we all make the wrong move but hopefully we learn by those mistakes but not these guys,the other venue i visited was a little way away in a lane couple in car just happy for me to watch along comes a car reverses into a gap in front not much bigger than the car leaves his headlights on to verify its a couple gets out locks his car flashing lights again walks past then back gets back into his car flashing lites again then proceeds to turn on and of his interior lite at least 25 times result couple drive of never to be seen again.
so you doggers out there moaning its quiet perhaps its our fault cause if iwas a couple i doubt i would venture out unless i was going to a club
So enough of the rant I`ll leave you with this question ask yourselve
Would you (dogger) bring your female friend to this venue and be comfortable?