how do i get my wife to agree to go further!
the first guy had never had a 3some (which may or may not have been true?)
i know that she is quite shy butwith the right encourgment, would be happy for the situation to go further but she would not instigate any move herself.
i suppose i would need to speak to the guy on the quiet and say to him that he wil have to make the moves.
thanks again for the replies.
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hi again and thanks for the replies.
i probably need to explain better than my previous post (sorry)
My wife is keen but nervous and that is what i need some advice on. i think you are right, the first guy had never had a threesome so we probably picked the wrong person.
we have talked so much on this subject and it has improved our love life 10 fold but it is putting a fantasy into practice that is the difficulty and help is needed.
i am sure once we meet at a bar for an intioal drink and he started some light flirting then it would be fine but she is nervous and unsure. i know she would not make the first move and would need the guy to pay her some compliments but it is the "how" to progess to gonig to a hotel or home (we have youngones) and then what?? who makes the move? me?
i know this is real tame but advice will be appreciated.
thanks
Dave
i probably need to explain better than my previous post (sorry)
My wife is keen but nervous and that is what i need some advice on. i think you are right, the first guy had never had a threesome so we probably picked the wrong person.
we have talked so much on this subject and it has improved our love life 10 fold but it is putting a fantasy into practice that is the difficulty and help is needed.
i am sure once we meet at a bar for an intioal drink and he started some light flirting then it would be fine but she is nervous and unsure. i know she would not make the first move and would need the guy to pay her some compliments but it is the "how" to progess to gonig to a hotel or home (we have youngones) and then what?? who makes the move? me?
i know this is real tame but advice will be appreciated.
thanks
Dave
Hi all, i am looking for some advice please.
we are a married couple and have discussed about asking a male to join us for a 3some.
the trouble is, can anyone offer any advice and tips to progress to the next stage.
my wife is happy enough to meet a guy for a drink but how can i help the situation move beyond that??
we met a guy a while back but as he did not make any move and we didn't it was a non starter!!
would appreciate any helpful hints to making what is a great buzz and turn on in bed to something more.
regards
Dave
we are a married couple and have discussed about asking a male to join us for a 3some.
the trouble is, can anyone offer any advice and tips to progress to the next stage.
my wife is happy enough to meet a guy for a drink but how can i help the situation move beyond that??
we met a guy a while back but as he did not make any move and we didn't it was a non starter!!
would appreciate any helpful hints to making what is a great buzz and turn on in bed to something more.
regards
Dave
thank you D&C
we have had a look and i did e-mail a club in brighton. (waiting reply)
but i didn't want to sound too naive and if i can get some info on what to expect then it would be better.
I see most of these clubs cater for couples and not too many for couples looking for single guys, am i wrong?
thanks for your time!! D&A :P
we have had a look and i did e-mail a club in brighton. (waiting reply)
but i didn't want to sound too naive and if i can get some info on what to expect then it would be better.
I see most of these clubs cater for couples and not too many for couples looking for single guys, am i wrong?
thanks for your time!! D&A :P
Hi there to you all.
we are a new (virgin) couple married to each other and looking for advice please!!
we are looking to go to a club in west sussex where i can watch her being taken by a guy or two.
The problem is, we don't know anywhere and not sure on what you do when you arrive?
Most clubs are for couples and my partner and i are not interested in that side (just MMF)
Could you give us some guide lines on what to do and how?
Does everyone strip off or are they fully clothed?
Thanking you in advance D&A
we are a new (virgin) couple married to each other and looking for advice please!!
we are looking to go to a club in west sussex where i can watch her being taken by a guy or two.
The problem is, we don't know anywhere and not sure on what you do when you arrive?
Most clubs are for couples and my partner and i are not interested in that side (just MMF)
Could you give us some guide lines on what to do and how?
Does everyone strip off or are they fully clothed?
Thanking you in advance D&A
