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This is a somewhat selfish message (in that it relates to me) but is something that I am grappling with at the moment. It is also my first visit to the forum although I have been a recent viewer.
I am married, 30, M, physically fit, uni educated etc (as is my wife- 27) - this is not a personal. Anyway recently my wife and I found ourselves in a situation (loved by my friend and I incidentally) whereby after a night out, my wife and my friend's long term girlfriend ended up (completely out of the blue) getting it on with each other. It started off as some touching and kissing just to get our attention - but carried on from that. It did get our attention (but we didn't want to acknowledge it initially for fear it might stop!) and ended up in a bit of group sex session. By which I mean the girls went reasonably far with each other (69) but the guys either just watched or participated with their partner (which was good considering the relationships between the parties). Anyway it was all good from then on - in terms of our friendships etc.
However, I am quite a sexual person and it has been some time since this occured and I would love to see it happen again. I was ecstatic that my wife had done this with another female and was encouraging her activity (despite her feelings of guilt the next day). I myself would love to swing or at least experiment on a more regular basis
The question is: How do I approach the wife about it?
I am married, 30, M, physically fit, uni educated etc (as is my wife- 27) - this is not a personal. Anyway recently my wife and I found ourselves in a situation (loved by my friend and I incidentally) whereby after a night out, my wife and my friend's long term girlfriend ended up (completely out of the blue) getting it on with each other. It started off as some touching and kissing just to get our attention - but carried on from that. It did get our attention (but we didn't want to acknowledge it initially for fear it might stop!) and ended up in a bit of group sex session. By which I mean the girls went reasonably far with each other (69) but the guys either just watched or participated with their partner (which was good considering the relationships between the parties). Anyway it was all good from then on - in terms of our friendships etc.
However, I am quite a sexual person and it has been some time since this occured and I would love to see it happen again. I was ecstatic that my wife had done this with another female and was encouraging her activity (despite her feelings of guilt the next day). I myself would love to swing or at least experiment on a more regular basis
The question is: How do I approach the wife about it?
