ok, so the latest is that we both went into the apple store in cardiff, had a chat with a young guy there - he made it work on msn but showing me the settings, i had to tell him i didnt really want to cam with anyone on the contact list in the shpo there and then lol
then i asked if i could check a chat site ( this one ) so he looked away - it still didnt work even after checking the settings - so i said to him, i'm going to give u an interesting story for the staff, and explained to him we used an adult site and couldnt get the cam to work on there - i opened a private room and showed him the settings - he said it is probably a problem between logitech and flash and suggested contacting them
he dealt with it really professionally and we both had a chuckle on the way out -
it would have been a turn out for the books if we had cammed in store - especialy the way mrs make cams lol
so, i have sent an email to logitech
i tried everything on the last post suggestion, including downloading the latest flash, and tried for ther drivers, but for this model you apparantly dont need them ?
so ,any more ideas, its a great cam and very clear, i only have a few days left to take it back if its not suitable
xxx