Whilst not new to this, we're not exactly mega-experienced either and we have to admit we're still prone to the occasional bout of nervousness when meeting others for the first time. Once we've got over that though, (usually only takes a glass or two!) we've been lucky enough to have had some great times with some lovely people and we are pleased to have made some good friends through here.

Julia is 40, 5'4" and still the same lovely size 10 that she was when we first met. Julia reckons she has progressed well beyond being bi-curious and does like playing with the girlies as well as the chaps. Dave definitely prefers the girlies, is 43, 5'10" and well-built - more rugby player than long distance runner. A few sessions in the gym are firming things up, honest!

We are both non-smokers and would prefer to meet the same.

We tend to enjoy all the things that come under the same room, soft swing banner, with everyone participating and we particularly enjoy oral fun. Whilst we classify ourselves as soft-swingers, we have full-swapped on occasion if it's felt right at the time with couples we have become close to - it just not something that may happen automatically every meet!

We are looking for couples (with a bi-female would be nice - we do love that added dimension ) similar to ourselves who love loads of sexy fun with toys, tongues and touchy feely and who enjoy exploring the things that 4 people can get up to together. We find piccy taking quite a turn-on as well, if you like showing off for the camera. We are also great fans of outdoor fun and the all-over sun tan, and love going to naturist beaches whenever the opportunity arises.

To us, personality is as much a turn-on as looks and we like to enjoy peoples' company, not just their bodies so whilst all the sexy stuff is really great, at least as important is the friendship and social side of things. We like to meet up for a no pressure get-to-know-you drink and chinwag and we are of the view that there's nothing wrong with playing on that first date if we all click - why miss a good opportunity!

Family commitments sometimes make it difficult to accommodate and sort out get-togethers - you know how it is with kids - but now they are getting older we usually manage to work something out. If you feel we sound right for you, please do get in touch.