well we're certainly glad we metioned our thoughts on that one!
Firstly, and please, this is absolutely sincere, we do apologise to the perfectly decent, polite and clearly very well mannered guys on this site who we have obviously offended. Sorry, we haven't read all the responses, but clearly it offended many of you and we are sorry for that.
Secondly, we now realise the acutely dangerous act of stating something that, we admit, was based quite firmly on a steroetype and some personal experience with time wasters etc. We're sure there are lots of lovely guys on here and our grievance was certainly not aimed at such persons. Another member personally messaged us and we endeavoured to explain that to her also though she's probably still orbiting the moon at this moment.
However the point does have relevance, even if it's a touchy subject to some (or everyone else on the site).
we won't anticipate any party invites in the future.
oh and whoever it was that asked if we wanted to fuck him, erm no thanks, but thanks for asking.
we're actually very nice people. no, really, we are.
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marcus__and__mich
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Reese,
we agree that there are always exceptions, particualrly with 'more experienced' gentleman who have the benefit of greater life experience but surely even you can't deny there are a few dodgy pretending to be something they're not males 'lurking' around. Perhaps we stuck too closely to the typical sterotype when making a point. Either way it's always been each to their own as far as we're concerned. We just thought the point was worth mentioning.
we agree that there are always exceptions, particualrly with 'more experienced' gentleman who have the benefit of greater life experience but surely even you can't deny there are a few dodgy pretending to be something they're not males 'lurking' around. Perhaps we stuck too closely to the typical sterotype when making a point. Either way it's always been each to their own as far as we're concerned. We just thought the point was worth mentioning.
this point we find fascinating. Firstly, the sexual eroticism of seeing each other sexually aroused and pleasured with another person/persons only developed with our relationship developing over time. I.e at first we were only interested in 'shagging' each other like rabbits and the idea of ever having other people touching or playing with our loved one would probably have brought about pangs of anger and jealousy, not arousal and immense pleasure.
our point stems from this: We just don't understand how (though we do understand why!) single guys sort of lurk around this site claiming to be swingers. We realise everyone's different, but to us the mutual satisfaction in indulging this sexual desire comes from the pleasure we gain in seeing each other so fulfilled. To us, reaching that point in a strong relationship could only come over a period of time as it's actually based on a deep love and emotional attachment, even if it is all about 'raw' sexual lust and enjoyment. Our point is how can a single guy actually get that and why are the ones lurking around here not just out in the real world looking to 'get laid' or find a girl instead of acting all sad and desperate on this site. It seems a little pathetic to us. It's like wanting a car before you've got a driving license. Sure, enjoy the fantasy of the car, but get the fucking license!
we think it's a little different for single women, simply because we (and again its just our opinion) think women can enjoy a greater depth of sexual freedom when they're not being bothered by a bunch of desperate male fuckwits. It would seem more 'honest' when a single woman ventures inside a swinging domain.
not that we don't see the benefit of utilisin eager young men for our pleasure, we just don't think they get at all what the true wonder of this indulgnece is.
that's about it really, oh and there does seem to be a load of desperate single guys just sort of hanging around hoping to fall onto a 'lay' in here. Guys maybe you should think about going out somewhere and trying to find girflfriends, that way you might actually learn something.
our point stems from this: We just don't understand how (though we do understand why!) single guys sort of lurk around this site claiming to be swingers. We realise everyone's different, but to us the mutual satisfaction in indulging this sexual desire comes from the pleasure we gain in seeing each other so fulfilled. To us, reaching that point in a strong relationship could only come over a period of time as it's actually based on a deep love and emotional attachment, even if it is all about 'raw' sexual lust and enjoyment. Our point is how can a single guy actually get that and why are the ones lurking around here not just out in the real world looking to 'get laid' or find a girl instead of acting all sad and desperate on this site. It seems a little pathetic to us. It's like wanting a car before you've got a driving license. Sure, enjoy the fantasy of the car, but get the fucking license!
we think it's a little different for single women, simply because we (and again its just our opinion) think women can enjoy a greater depth of sexual freedom when they're not being bothered by a bunch of desperate male fuckwits. It would seem more 'honest' when a single woman ventures inside a swinging domain.
not that we don't see the benefit of utilisin eager young men for our pleasure, we just don't think they get at all what the true wonder of this indulgnece is.
that's about it really, oh and there does seem to be a load of desperate single guys just sort of hanging around hoping to fall onto a 'lay' in here. Guys maybe you should think about going out somewhere and trying to find girflfriends, that way you might actually learn something.
hi to all,
we're new here, as you may have gathered, and we were grateful to see the advice given to Kaz and lee which we also found useful. We are interested in the idea of easing our way into things by attending some social functions and clubs. On this point, we have been reading the thread on the 'sex maniacs ball' which sounded wonderful. Could someone please explain what and where this is held and how we might obtain tickets for next year? Thankyou.
Is there anything else like this around? Apologies now if we're asking age old questions, we have just started enjoying this outside of the fantasy element so we're pretty lost right now. We've just come back from a nudist holiday in south of France which was a great start point and thought we would start looking around closer to home. If any one has any good clubs to recommend that would be greatly appreciated. Being clean and well run would be a pre requisite for us. Thanks.
we're new here, as you may have gathered, and we were grateful to see the advice given to Kaz and lee which we also found useful. We are interested in the idea of easing our way into things by attending some social functions and clubs. On this point, we have been reading the thread on the 'sex maniacs ball' which sounded wonderful. Could someone please explain what and where this is held and how we might obtain tickets for next year? Thankyou.
Is there anything else like this around? Apologies now if we're asking age old questions, we have just started enjoying this outside of the fantasy element so we're pretty lost right now. We've just come back from a nudist holiday in south of France which was a great start point and thought we would start looking around closer to home. If any one has any good clubs to recommend that would be greatly appreciated. Being clean and well run would be a pre requisite for us. Thanks.
