Looking for Smart Shirt tie type of guy 45yrs+ to form longterm friendship with my slim 40yr old wife leading to permanent relationship and not just one off sex session. My wife has only experienced sex with me and has told me she wonders what another guy would be like. she is looking for a guy with pleasant personality, not a jack the lad. I have just come out as gay to my wife thus why she needs a real man to take over for a relationship. Type of guys that appeal to her are older, very smart, clean & mature professional types, single or hairy a bonus. Ideal man would live in a 40 mile radius of Leeds, no pressure but just to see what develops. More mature guys very welcome. If your looking for a quickie, one off then this is not for you as wife is looking for a permanent partner. Wife does not take contraception so would be a real pregnancy risk if you dont like or want to use condoms, could be a bonus for a guy who would like to father a child.