For me it's about quality not quantity - deliciously erotic, dirty, imaginative, sophisticated, intelligent sex. Add in escapism, discretion and adventure. High standards - good food etc.

I look for a caring "modern" couple where the woman enjoys looking good and gives an outward impression of complete respectability, whilst being capable of the naughtiest of activities. The man ideally will be very much part of the fun and get as much out of it as he wants.