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3 Nov 2005

Quote by Northbicester

In my humble opinion may I point out that a public car par/beauty spot is not private especially so if it is a known dogging area. A serious and sensible dogger should have a fall back secret place where they can take others.

I agree in some ways Mary but it's not always convenient to drive from one place to another and surely people should always be able to choose who they allow to watch/participate. Otherwise that would lead to it being open house as soon as someone pulled in to park up. So I think you're being a little harsh accusing us of not being a serious and sensible doggers.
No sorry if I gave the wrong impression but I am not accusing anybody of anything. I was just stating the obvious and that is in a public place no one has anymore rights than anybody else so we always move to a secret place if there are strangers around.

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2 Nov 2005

Quote by Serendipity
Unfortunately in my experience there are too many doggers who think that if a couple turn up that they are guarnateed a shag

Very noticeably now, I don't think it was as bad a year ago when I first visited here or maybe I have rose tinted spec where my first few weeks here are concerned! redface

That's what bothers me most though, will these attitudes influence couples to involve others .... and will that lead to thevoyeurs eventually being considered prick teasers (pussy teasers??) if they only want to watch! lol

It's interesting to see a mention about building trust through arranged meets with familiar faces, the anonymity of dogging is what has appealed to me in the past so I always imagine that seeing the same old faces in the twilight would remove some of the thrill eventually, perhaps even more so for couples who want to be watched but not touched - I may be way off the mark with that, it's hard to imagine it from your side of the dogging equation sometimes!
We have a circle of about 40 couples and maybe 10 blokes and 2-3 single girls. We would not be bothered if we met any of them at Asda as all are our friends. We do not have sex with each other unless it is a very dead night but we do hunt together and exchange notes. We have parties together and some of us even baby sit for each other.

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2 Nov 2005

Quote by Northbicester
Have to agree with noto. Last week in one of my fav spots no fewer than 5 couples were put off by the actions of these rude pushy people. The people in the car are doing us all a great favour and long may it continue. Even last night at an arranged meet I had to tell one middle aged chap (regular pain in the arse) it was private 4 times before he'd clear off and even then he hovered round hopefully. This put the couple off and the evening ended early. Watcher's should be respectful and only approach at the relevant signal. It may be a newbie couple frightened off by their impatience. The only time so far I've talked my other half into coming out we agreed before to stay in the car and not open the windows unless she felt comfortable. Within 2 minutes of pulling into the site our door handles were being tried and another bloke was knocking on the window not using his hands. Couples shouldn't comprimise and only do what they are happy with doing. For genuine doggers we are happy with that and respect the boundaries.

In my humble opinion may I point out that a public car par/beauty spot is not private especially so if it is a known dogging area. A serious and sensible dogger should have a fall back secret place where they can take others.

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2 Nov 2005

Quote by Serendipity
Reading about Doggingtwo's recent night time adventure inspired this thought....so thinking caps on ladies and gents!
A lot of couples seem to be overlooked by doggers as "nah they only show" or "pr*ckteasers" because they prefer to let doggers watch than join in. This must drive away some couples completely as they feel unwelcome or unappreciated while others might not be bothered and carry on regardless. However, is there a point at which couples will compromise in order to continue the thrill of dogging rather than have no audience at all? Would you move your boundaries a little/a lot to feed your exhibitionist needs or would you stick to your guns even if it means no watchers at all?

In my opinion one should never compromise. Each of us knows what we wish to do and we should only ever do it on our terms. The best way to achieve this is by knowing your doggers and getting to speak to one of them alone and explain your rules and ask it to be made known next time you turn up. You then pick your audience and go somewhere else more private as car parks and beauty spots are public places and while there you cannot decide who else can be there.

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