First of all, I am not looking for a soulmate. Been there and will carry the scars she left on me until I die so, if that's your thing please look elsewhere however, in the meantime, you never know what may hit you in the face on a wet Tuesday as they say. I'm primarily looking for comfort, intimacy, fun, cuddles, and lots of good old fashioned dirty sex between two (or 3) consenting adults who are of a similair mind and are looking to explore their sexual horizons, following the realisation that they may have reached a point in their life when they know what they want and intend to get as much of it as they can before its too late.

With my background (ex forces and now emergency services) you can take it that cleanliness, integrity and trust come with the package. Some tattoos, blue eyed and blond, a few pounds here and there but nothing excessive so, relativly fit with a decent body for my age and, just under 8" shaved, head too! I am polite, educated, D&D free, do not bother with one night stands, prefering to build a rapport and really discover my partner besides which, I hate rubbers! Well groomed and always clean, I can hold my own in any social situation, be amusing and have eclectic tastes, not just sexually. Live life now, you only have one, and try everything at least once is how I try to embrace things.

I like fems of all shapes and sizes especially ones who dress to please and tease, and I adore sexy undies, heels, stockings, lingerie etc and a mature woman with some curves in the right places who knows and understands what these things do to a man, and who enjoys participating in plenty of oral and teasing. I just love giving and really get off on spending time between her legs watching her squirm and cum, and obviously I have no complaints recieving! I can be O bi with the right female present in a 3+ sum situation but only if it's for her entertainment but, it's not an esential and only something i would do for her pleasure as i dont finf males attractive in any way.

I can switch and be her bitch but am primarily dom, and have enjoyed some bondage, O, A, dirty talk, teasing, using toys and objects, verbal humiliation, role play and other fun however, I have been sub for the right woman and thoroughly enjoyed it or else I am quite happy to match my partners moods or desires.

I Like to probe your mind, tease you verbally, and I am looking for a single fem or even the right cpl to challenge my boundaries, have fun with and explore those naughty things we seek but are often afraid to ask for. Available Dorset and adjacent areas most day times and some evenings during the week for mutual fun or, I do travel occasionally around the south of the UK and can arrange to meet or spend time away overnight.